“Yeah, I know.”
“So? What if Nick isn’t as pro-divorce as you first thought he was? What are you going to do then?”
“My lawyer asked me the exact same question. Along with a million others. And honestly I don’t know. If Nick is pro-divorce, the actual procedure doesn’t seem that difficult. It’s mostly paperwork and legal fees. We will have to go to court to finalize it, but everything before then can be handled by our lawyers. We can file for divorce together and split everything equally. Hopefully, I’ll take over the mortgage completely. I already pay it anyway. There are not that many bills to split outside of the house. He can take his things, I can take mine. Easy-peasy.”
“And what if he doesn’t want to do that?”
“Then it gets more complicated. I have to serve him the papers. They could show up at his work and deliver them like he’s some sort of criminal. It sounds awful.”
“So awful that you’re not going to go through with it?”
I looked at Kara and saw hope flicker in her eyes. Did she really think this was a bad idea? Or was she just trying to save me the hassle?
“Do you really think I’m making a huge mistake?” I tried to keep the accusation out of my tone, but I couldn’t hide it all. I felt suddenly betrayed.
She sucked in her bottom lip and then let it go, building herself up for whatever she needed to say. “Kate, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. It’s not going to get magically better. You’re not going to find the perfect person and live happily ever after. Happily ever after doesn’t exist. It will never exist. Even if you go about this amicably, this divorce is going to be messy; it’s going to hurt Nick and it’s going to hurt you. It’s honestly going to tear you apart. I love you. I don’t want to see you go through all of that.”
“And what about my marriage? What if I stay in a relationship with Nick and we just fight for the rest of our lives? What if he never wants to grow up and despises me forever because I’m asking him to? What if he thinks I’m nothing but a nag and a dream-killer and a rotten, heartless witch? How do I live with myself if my husband thinks that?” My voice grew louder and more hysterical with every word. I was on the verge of tears and screaming and drowning myself in cheap tequila by the end of it.
Kara, despite my hysterics, leveled me with a serious look and said, “I don’t know, Kate. I don’t know what happens then and I don’t know what happens if you get a divorce. I just know that neither way is easy. And neither way is going to automatically make you feel better.”
My breath came in short, violent bursts and tears swam in my eyes. I heard someone at the door and knew that was my cue to leave. I gathered up my bags and without saying goodbye to Kara, I fled her office.
I didn’t have class for another fifteen minutes and the only thing I could think to do to fill the time was to call Nick.
Sure, I had papers to look at, lessons to plan for, I probably should have eaten something… but I needed to hear his voice. I needed to hear the certainty or uncertainty or whatever it was I was looking for.
I pulled out my phone and dialed his number. It rang for a long time and eventually kicked into voicemail. I let out an ugly curse that wasn’t at all appropriate for school and tried again.
And then again and again and again until I had found my classroom and locked myself inside.
I finally gave up and just stared at my screen, wondering where he was and why he wasn’t answering.
Had he gone to his own lawyer this morning? After yesterday’s performance on my parents’ lawn, I couldn’t blame him. Maybe he just didn’t want to talk to me. Maybe he wanted to avoid me for as long as he could.
I nearly screamed when my screen finally lit up and announced Nick’s number across the front.