Too Late

They put me in the back of the ambulance, but I’m still holding Sloan’s hand. She sits next to me and leans over and presses her lips against mine. She pulls back and smiles down at me, her eyes still full of worry. “Is it over, Luke? Is this nightmare finally over?”

I nod and bring my hand up to her cheek. “It’s over, Sloan. For real this time.”





I spent three days in the hospital due to my wreck. Sloan stayed with me because I didn’t want her to be in the apartment alone after everything that had happened.

She still doesn’t talk about what happened before I showed up that day. As much as I hope she can open up and tell me about it one day, I don’t push her. I know what Asa was capable of and I don’t even like to think about what she might have had to endure. She’s been going to therapy, and it really does seem to help, so that’s all I can ask of her. I just want her to continue to do what she can to help herself move past the situation, at whatever pace she needs to do it.

The day I was released from the hospital, there was a funeral planned for Asa. Sloan and I were at the apartment that morning packing a few belongings when Ryan called to let me know about it. I relayed the information to her, but knew that she wouldn’t want to attend his funeral after all he’d put her through.

Later that morning, on the drive to my parents’, Sloan told me she wanted to go to the funeral. She asked me to turn the car around. Naturally, I tried to talk her out of it. I was even a little upset that she would want to subject herself to that, but I had to remind myself that she knew him better than anyone. Even though she was terrified of him, she was one of the few people who meant something to him. As fucked up as he was in showing it.

When we arrived, we were the only two who showed up.

I tried to imagine what that must have been like for him. To have no family at all, and the friends you did have weren’t even real friends. He didn’t even have anyone to set up funeral arrangements, so it was a minimal burial. There was no one else there. Just a preacher from the funeral home, me, Sloan, and another employee from the funeral home. I’m not even sure a prayer would have been said had we not attended.

I don’t want to say that helped me to understand him better, because he was the reason no one showed up to his funeral. But I did feel sorry for him more in that moment than I ever had. But he harmed everyone in his path throughout his life and you can’t really blame anyone but Asa for that.

Sloan didn’t cry during the funeral. It was just a graveside burial that lasted about ten minutes. The preacher relayed a quick sermon and said a prayer, then asked if either of us wanted to say anything. I shook my head, because I was honestly only there for Sloan’s benefit. But Sloan nodded. She stood next to me, her hand in mine, and she looked down at the casket. She exhaled a careful breath before speaking.

“Asa...” she said. “You had a lot of potential. But you spent every day of your life expecting the world to repay you for a few really shitty years you were dealt as a child. That’s where you went wrong. The world doesn’t owe us a thing. We take what we’re given and we make the most of it. But you took what you were given and you shit on it and then expected more.”

She stepped forward and released my hand. There were no flowers, so she bent down and picked up a dandelion, placing it on top of his casket. And then in a quiet whisper, she said, “Every child deserves love, Asa. I’m sorry you were never given that. For that, I forgive you. We both do.”

She stayed quiet for several minutes. I’m not sure if she was saying a prayer for him or if she was silently saying goodbye, but I waited for her. She stepped back eventually and grabbed my hand, then turned and walked away with me at her side. In that moment, I was happy we decided to attend. I think she needed to be there more than I knew.

Since that day over seven months ago, I’ve thought about that moment a lot. I thought I understood what she was saying in that moment at Asa’s funeral. But right now, standing over my son’s crib and looking down on him as he sleeps peacefully, I think it just hit me what she was saying when she said “...I forgive you. We both do.”

At the time, I thought she was referring to the two of us. Her and me. That both of us forgave Asa for all he had put us through. But I’m not so sure she was referring to me now that I look back on it. She was referring to our son. When she said we, she meant herself and our son.

She was telling Asa that they forgive him, because even though she was only a few months pregnant at that point, I think she’s known all along that Asa is most likely our son’s biological father. I believe that’s the reason she needed to go to the funeral. She didn’t need closure for herself. She needed closure for the child that Asa would never know.

We’ve only spoken once about the fact that our son, Dalton, may not biologically be mine. It was two weeks after he was born. Sloan had purchased a paternity test because she feared that it was bothering me not knowing if Dalton was mine or Asa’s. Sloan was afraid that not knowing for certain if I was the father was going to eat at me, and she didn’t want to be what stood between me and the truth.

That paternity test has been sitting in our bathroom cabinet since that day. I haven’t opened it yet. She hasn’t asked about it. And right now, staring down at my little boy while he sleeps, I feel like I already know the answer.

It doesn’t matter who fathered this baby, because Sloan is this baby’s mother.

There was a moment once, the first time Asa introduced me to Sloan. She was standing in her kitchen, swaying back and forth, washing dishes. She was absolutely mesmerizing. And there was this peacefulness on her face that I’d soon come to know was very rare.

I see that same peacefulness in Dalton when he sleeps. He has her dark hair, her eyes. And her spirit. And that’s all that matters to me. I wish she believed that. I wish she knew that whether or not those test results would prove that this baby is biologically a part of me or a part of Asa, it changes nothing. I don’t love this child like I do because I have a biological responsibility to love him. I love this child because I’m human and I can’t help it. I love him because I’m his dad.

I reach into the crib and I run my hand over the top of his head.

“What are you doing?”

I turn around and Sloan is leaning against the doorway to the nursery. Her head is resting against the frame of the door and she’s smiling at me.

I pull Dalton’s blanket up a little higher and then I turn around and walk toward Sloan. I grab her hand and pull the door to the nursery halfway shut. Sloan intertwines her fingers in mine and follows me as I make my way through our bedroom and into the bathroom.

She’s still behind me, gripping my hand, when I open the cabinet and take out the paternity test. When I face her, I can see a quiet fear in her eyes. I kiss her to wipe her fear away, and then I keep my hand wrapped with hers as I make my way toward the kitchen. I open the door to the small room off our kitchen that contains our trashcan, and I take the lid off of it. I take the paternity test—still in its packaging—and I throw it away. I replace the lid, close the door, and turn to face Sloan.

There are tears in her eyes, and as hard as she’s trying to hide it, there’s a smile tugging at the corner of her mouth. I wrap my arms around her and for several seconds, we just silently stare at each other. She’s looking up at me and I’m staring down at her and in this moment, we both know everything we need to know.

It doesn’t matter how the members of my family came to be. What matters is that this is my family. We’re a family. Me and her and our son.




The End