My world was transformed.
After completely forgetting about whatever stupid scholastic thing led me there, it took me about two hours to plant my flag on the internet and create a personal university home page with cutting-edge green bubble GeoCities-like background art that I designed all by myself. Here’s the actual picture of my stunning artistry:
Amazing design. Perfect layout. (Font: default New Berolina. Oh, yeah.) True story, I ended up earning a spot on a “Babes of the World Wide Web” directory with this page. It was a disgusting and skuzzy website that compiled the URLs of the “hottest women on the internet.” And I made their top fifty list in 1998, yeah! If you blow up my head shot, you can clearly see the faint outlines of a mustache on my upper lip. In the early internet days, standards were definitely lower.
Before I left the lab, I made Condescending Guy show me how to dial up to this “internet” thing from my house using a program called Telnet, and after that I never looked back. Or searched for a social life for the rest of college. With this kind of technology, who needed it?!
Between my web browser, math degree, playing violin and video games, and never ever dating anybody, I had the most comprehensive, unsocial college experience in the history of man. But still, I loved it. I loved being on campus. And learning. And getting perfect grades. And being the little prodigy everyone took care of. I occasionally went to kung fu movie screenings at the college rec center on Friday nights (yes, my mom went with), and I prided myself on knowing every out-of-the-way single-stall restroom hidden in the obscure campus buildings, like Archaeology, where I could poop in private. After four years I graduated as the valedictorian of my class and delivered an overly earnest speech on “Finding the Art in Your Science.” The whole time I was lucky enough to find work as a musician, so everyone assumed I would continue on to graduate school and have a great violin career, and all the expectations were heaped and heaped and heaped.
After graduating, I didn’t do anything with any of it.
Um, why?
There was a student in Mr. Frittelli’s class, I’ll call him Carl, who was from New York City and a “BRO!” personified. With an accent like a construction worker and hands like ham hocks, he was the most out-of-place guy you can imagine in the classical music world. And he wanted to play the violin more than anything else in his life.
Thing was, Carl was not good. He didn’t start early enough, he didn’t work hard enough, he sometimes brandished his instrument like a weapon. No one thought he could make a career of it. But he WANTED it so badly. You could see it in his eyes when he watched other people play who were better than him. It broke my heart.
All I wanted was to give Carl my abilities. Even though I had been devoted to music for so many years, I knew deep down that I didn’t want to play violin for the rest of my life.
I admire the crap out of Carl now, because he was doing something he loved more than anything. And he was determined to do it, regardless of how successful he was. Carl played the violin because he had a PASSION for it, and screw the rest of the world. Even if he had to get a day job that wasn’t musical after college, and was only able to pick the instrument up at night before bed, to play ONLY for himself, it made him complete to have that in his life. And I think every minute he spent playing that violin was a moment he was spending his time right.
I wanted to find something like that for myself. I had a sense that I hadn’t found it yet, that there was MORE out there somewhere. I knew I wasn’t complete by playing Pachelbel’s Canon for the five hundredth time at a wedding. I knew I wouldn’t be satisfied by teaching adorable toddler robots “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” either. I wanted to find a dream that I couldn’t live without pursuing. Regardless if I made it or not. Just like for Carl, the “trying” of it would be worth it.
So after graduation, I moved to Los Angeles to become an actor. That was what my heart told me I needed to TRY to become. I knew I could do it.
After all, I had two Real Degrees. How could I fail?
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Hollywood: Not a Meritocracy?
My adorably na?ve history as an actor and why, in my mind, I was destined to “make it” in Hollywood based on several community theatre chorus girl parts.
For some reason I always knew I wanted to be an actor. I think it was because I read too many fantasy novels as a kid. There was always this nebulous feeling of destiny, like I was the Chosen One, foretold to vanquish auditions for One Life to Live and Hannah Montana with talent bestowed by the gods. In my heart I was certain: The sword of stardom would be mine!