“Was it something I said?”
“N-n-n-no,” Sam cried. “I just understand m-m-m-more than you know.”
Sam used his whole shirt to wipe away his tears, but they kept coming.
“Do you wanna talk about it?” Cash asked.
“I can’t,” he said. “I’m not ready to talk to someone about it yet.”
“Lucky for you I’m not a person—I’m a celebrity, remember?” Cash joked but it didn’t help. “No offense, but you should probably get it off your chest before you flood the city. It’ll feel better if you just let it out.”
As if he’d been struck by emotional food poisoning, Sam couldn’t hold the secret inside any longer.
“I’m transgender!” Sam declared. “I know what it’s like to have everyone treat you like something you’re not because people have been doing it to me my whole life. I’ve never met someone who could relate—but it’s like everything you just said! We’re both trapped! We’re both prisoners of unfair expectations!”
The confession took Cash a moment to process. He had thought it would be about affording college, trouble with his friends, or something to do with his mother—but he never expected Sam’s dilemma would be so personal. The actor looked around the roof to see if there was someone more qualified to handle the situation, but he was all Sam had.
“Wow,” Cash said. “I just thought you were rocking an Anne Hathaway look. Are you positive you’re transgender?”
“Of course I’m positive,” Sam said. “It’s not something someone says just for the hell of it—I’ve never once identified with being female. Every time I see myself in the mirror or in a photograph, I feel like I’m looking at someone else. I know I’m trans like I know we’re breaking several state laws by drinking on this roof.”
“Have you talked to anyone else about this?” Cash asked
“I went to a psychologist in Downers Grove,” Sam said. “He basically told me I was mentally ill. Other than him, you’re the only person I’ve ever told.”
“Well, it’s hard for some people to understand—”
“But it shouldn’t be!” Sam said. “I have the heart and mind of a man, and I want the rest to match—it’s that simple.”
“So you haven’t told your friends or family?” Cash asked.
“My mom probably thinks transgender means a rare tiger species,” he said. “When I was younger I was afraid to tell my friends because I was afraid of how they’d react. Now I know they’d accept me. I’m just afraid my honesty might hurt someone.”
“You’re preaching to the choir on that one,” Cash said. “I’m guessing you’re talking about Topher, huh?”
Sam glanced at him like the actor had read his mind. “How did you know that?”
“Please, that kid is easier to read than Dick and Jane,” Cash said. “I’ve seen how he glances at you in the car and across the table at lunch. It’s adorable and pathetic at the same time.”
“Well, that pendulum swings both ways,” Sam said.
“What?” Cash asked. “You mean, you’ve got the hots for Topher? Well, you certainly hide it better than he does.”
Sam nodded. “It was a recent discovery,” he explained. “I used to think I was hiding the truth from Topher to protect his feelings—I didn’t want him to get hurt when he realized the girl of his dreams was actually a guy. Now I realize I’ve been hiding the truth from myself to protect my feelings—I’m scared he isn’t going to like the real me or that he’ll be upset when he learns I’ve been lying to him. I’ll understand if our relationship doesn’t go beyond friendship, but I can’t think of anything worse than losing him completely.”
“Jesus,” Cash said. “There isn’t a Taylor Swift song to get you through that one.”
“Nope,” Sam said.
Cash poured another round of whiskey shots, and neither of them felt the burn in their throats this time.
“Forgive my ignorance, but is all of this going to change?” the actor asked. “Will you start liking girls after you transition?”
“No, gender identity and sexual orientation are completely different,” Sam explained. “Most people don’t understand that it’s a separate issue and different for every trans person. There are a number of ways someone can transition, but it rarely changes their sexual orientation.”
“Really?” Cash said. “I didn’t know there were options.”
“Of course,” Sam said. “Some trans people are gender fluid and switch from female to male over time. Some are genderqueer and may relate to neither or form a combination of the two. Others are transsexual and emotionally and psychologically relate to the opposite sex, like me. You can change a body, but you can’t change a soul. The heart wants what it wants.”
“Wow,” Cash said. “That’s incredible.”