“That’s not why we’re getting divorced, Josh.”
“It’s a reason for something,” he pushed.
“Then it’s a reason that led up to the reason we’re getting divorced. There’s a lot to us that you never saw or heard about. A lot you will never hear about. Whatever my reasons for ending my marriage are mine alone. I don’t expect you to understand.”
“Does he know them?”
“Does he know what?”
“Your reasons for leaving him.”
The wind rushed out of me and I thought I might pass out for a minute. The pain was too acute, too blinding. I couldn’t breathe through this. I couldn’t live through this. My brother had dealt the final blow, but the expression on Nick’s face, when he had grabbed the pillow off our bed to take it downstairs all those months ago, annihilated whatever was left of my heart.
“Yes,” I whispered. “And he has his own reasons for wanting to leave me too.”
We finished the dishes in silence. I left my parent’s house soon after that, using the valid excuse that I had a ton of papers to grade. My parents weren’t happy to see me leave, but I wasn’t sure they would have been happy to have me stay either.
I drove back to the small house I’d shared with Nick for the last five years. It was empty when I got there except for my puppy. Of course. I lived by myself now.
It was quiet too.
Too quiet.
It was dark and quiet and for the first time since we bought this damn house, I hated it. I hated it because it represented everything I couldn’t have. Everything I lost.
I hated Nick too.
He wasn’t supposed to let our marriage end like this. He wasn’t supposed to let things get this bad.
And most of all.
I hated myself.
I couldn’t help it. At the end of the day… after all of my explanations and logical choices, after my lists of his wrongdoings and all of the reasons we were wrong for each other, I hated myself and what I had done.
I hated myself for what I couldn’t take back.
Chapter Three
10. He misses the dog.
I threw my keys down on the counter and looked at the leftover dishes from last night. I should have done them after dinner, but I couldn’t find the energy. At the time, I told myself it was a reward for not picking up fast food on the way home from work again, but now I recognized my laziness for what it was.
It was funny how living by myself spotlighted all of these faults I hadn’t noticed before. When Nick lived here, I always cleaned up after dinner. He hadn’t asked me to or expected it, but I had always felt the drive to please him.
Okay, maybe not in every way. But he did things for me. He took out the trash without being asked. He changed lightbulbs when they burned out. He walked the dog when it rained. The dishes were part of my portion of housekeeping and whatever else you could say about me or about how I treated Nick, at least I kept that part of our bargain.
For better or worse, in sickness and in health, you mow the yard and I’ll scrub the pans.
Now my vows were as empty and meaningless as my chores. What was the point of cleaning up if there was no one here to appreciate my effort?
I wanted gold stars and verbal affirmation.
The dog gave me neither of those things.
My feet ached and my head buzzed with the chaos of the day. I yawned so long and wide I half expected my jaw to unhinge.
I stood at the counter listening to the house. The ice machine kicked on and the refrigerator started buzzing. I could hear the hallway clock ticking its rhythmic tocks as it kept time. The most beautiful dog in the entire world plopped on the ground at my feet and let out a long puppy sigh.
I could see it in her big brown eyes. Finally, you’re home, woman. Now pay me attention and fetch my chewie.