But I didn't regret it, and I didn't feel weird about it. I felt right about it. When I left the hospital, they had this counselor come in and talk to me about being physically intimate again. They made it sound like it would be hard to let someone get close like that. When I imagined what happened to me, I imagined it being horrible, and I couldn't even begin to comprehend what women who remembered went through. When I listened to that counselor talk about how I would feel, and that it was okay to feel that way, I had some concerns that maybe I wouldn't be able to be intimate again. What if I couldn't do it? What if this guy had ruined me for someone like Evan? My mind immediately went to us. I imagined what it would be like. I imagined the things he would say to me and the gentle way he would regard my body.
And when he did everything I imagined, that was what made it okay. That was why I could do it. It wasn't because I didn't have a memory of the incident. It was because it was Evan. It was because Evan gave me back that power and control. He let me choose. Since that first kiss to now, he may have instigated the intimacy on more than one occasion, but he always waited for me to make the move. Instead of taking, he was giving.
Sometimes I felt like maybe I wasn't right for someone like Evan, but then again, was anyone really right for anyone? And I guess I only say that because I look at Evan and I think to myself, "Wow, how'd I get so lucky to have a guy like him come my way?"
Any time you're attracted to someone, you're drawn to them in some way, whether it be sexually or their personality, and then together you try to make it work. Sometimes it comes naturally, other times you have to work a little harder to be together.
Despite that, there are times when you are drawn to someone and you have no idea why it is that you have that attachment to them. You're brought together by some strange twist of fate and forced together. No matter how hard you try to ignore it, the feelings, those overwhelming anxious butterflies and their flappy wings, force you to find out more, believe more and want more.
That was me, the girl who wanted to know the man that saved me. I believed that fate brought us together, and I wanted it to be true. Me and those flappy winged butterflies were all about Evan Masen.
There was something that drew me in from the very beginning, a memory I had from when I was in the coma. It might be crazy to say, but it was his voice. I loved listening to his voice, just the sound calmed me, and I remembered it.
After showering, we lay there wrapped around each other in content silence, looking at one another, and I finally acknowledged that I wanted Evan no matter what. I wanted him more than a friend. It was as natural as breathing, as natural as dancing was for me, as natural as hockey came to him.
Evan told me he wasn't going anywhere, and I believed him. I believed him now. It was the natural thing to do, and that was why I was okay with this: moving on and being with him.
Clipping – Hitting an opponent below the knees. This will result in a penalty.
Game 82 – Detroit Red Wings
Sunday, April 11, 2010
(Home Game)
I woke up to the blare of my alarm on Sunday morning and didn't want to leave. Ami was in my bed with me, her head on my chest, bare legs draped over my midsection. Fuck if I didn't want to be buried between them.
I had to get up, or I was about to do just that.
There wasn't a lot of time, I had to be at the rink by six for our morning skate, so I had just enough time for a protein shake. I left Ami curled up in my bed, locked the door behind me, and left her note telling her I would be back around two and we could leave for the game then.
When I got to the rink, news had come in that Dave had been traded and our starting line defense was rattled. Dave Keller was traded to the San Jose Sharks.
Shit like that happened all the time in the NHL, and it was why you always had to be on your game. It wasn't like Dave did anything wrong either, nothing that we knew of anyway.
It was part of the unknown of being a professional athlete because you never knew when you would be in a different state, playing for an entirely different team. It was hard to make friends, build a home, and have a family. Maybe that was why they paid you so much?
Honestly, it shocked the hell out of all of us, but we got Jay Lucas from their team. Fuck if that guy couldn't destroy you on a simple body check. I definitely didn't want to tangle with him, even in practice. I made sure we were always on the same scrimmage team. No way was I meeting him against the boards.
"It smells like sex in here," Leo said, skating past me and then circling around, taunting me.
"Shut up."
"You know, you're not the first Blackhawk to get it on at the United Center." Leo looked around searching for Remy. When he found him taking shots at Cage before drills began, he laughed. "Remy fucked some chick against the boards earlier in the year." He shook his head. "Remember our four game streak in November on home ice?"
"Yeah…" I said, not understanding where he was going with that.
"Remy says it's because he gave the rink some good luck juice." Leo gave a nod at Remy, who was making his way over to us. Cage nailed him in the back of the head with a puck again.
I groaned, skating away from Leo. "You're such a nasty fucker."
Leo still hadn't had enough of taunting me and skated by, telling me not to fall on the ice and something obscene about fucking a girl in the locker room two weeks ago. "Stop it," I warned him. "If you don't stop I'm gonna nail your ass to the boards."
He laughed, flipping me off. He thought I was kidding.