I look at the both of them, and I feel myself falling apart. My own parents, threatening me and trying to control me. Looking at them is actually making my stomach turn, so I do the only thing I know to do. I grab Ryan’s hand and let him take me away.
His grip on me is tight as he walks us through the living room, grabbing our coats, and leading me outside to his jeep. He doesn’t say a word, but the look on his face tells me he’s pissed. He opens the car door for me, and I begin to feel lightheaded. I reach forward and brace my free hand on the side of the seat, trying to hold myself up and clear the haze in my vision when Ryan grabs me and pulls me into his arms. I cling to him tightly and start sobbing into his chest. I can barely grasp what just happened. But, I know I can’t go back. They made that clear.
After a few minutes, I’m able to calm myself down enough to stop the tears. My breathing is still erratic, and I’m so embarrassed that Ryan had to see all of that. I can’t even look him in the eyes, so I keep my head down when I finally loosen my grip on him and pull away. He kisses the top of my head before gripping my waist and helping me into the car.
The drive home is quiet. I’m still trying to process what happened back there. I never thought my parents would ever go that far. I don’t need their money or their lifestyle, and the fact that they thought it meant that much to me that they could threaten me with it proves that they don’t know me at all.
When we get back to my house, I am thoroughly drained. I curl up on the couch and kick my heels off and onto the floor. Ryan walks into the kitchen, and when he comes back out, he has a beer and a glass of wine. He hands me the glass, and I gulp half of it down quickly before setting it on the coffee table. Sitting down on the couch, he leans back on the side armrest, pulling me between his legs so that my back is resting on his chest. He wraps one arm around my waist while his other hand is threading through my hair. I can feel his steady breathing by the rise and fall of his chest.
This closeness that I feel with Ryan is a lot for me to process. Closing my eyes, I take a slow, deep breath and shift to my side, resting my cheek on his sternum. I listen to his heart as it beats rapidly.
“You okay?” His words are the first spoken since we left my parents house. I know I can’t talk around the huge lump in my throat, so I just shake my head. Ryan rests his chin on the top of my head, and when I begin to cry again, he tightens his hold on me.
I feel safe enough with him to finally have this release. I’ve spent years making excuses for my parents, just brushing off and accepting their behavior. But, this . . . this cuts deep. My whole life I’ve been trying to make them proud of me, but I just can’t be what they want me to be. I can’t even think about trying to bottle up this pain, so I just let it out.
Chapter Twenty-One
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Ryan stayed over for a few hours before leaving me last night. We barely spoke at all as he held me, but we didn’t need to talk. I never feel as if I need to be anything I’m not when I am with him. I don’t even want to think about what last night would have been like if he hadn’t been there.
He told me I didn’t have to go with him to his mom’s house, that he would stay with me. But I really need the distraction. So, we are making the four-hour drive to Cannon Beach in Oregon to spend the next few days with his family. I’m nervous about meeting everyone. Ryan has a large family, something I have never been around. All I know is the dysfunction I grew up around with my mother and father.
“You’re quiet over there,” Ryan says as he drives through the tall, thick pine trees of the mountains.
“Just a little nervous.”
“Don’t be.” He gives my knee a soft squeeze of reassurance.
On our long drive, I try not to worry too much about what they will think of me. Ryan does a good job of distracting me with conversation and listening to music. After a while, I decide to lean back and take a nap since I had a restless night of sleep.
When we pull up to the large, two-story, dark grey beach house with a driveway and street full of cars, I start wringing my hands and fingers together. He parks the jeep, steps out, and walks around to my side, opening my door.
Grabbing both of my hands, he says, “Don’t be so nervous. Just relax.”
I nod my head, but I worry they might think I’m weird or rude if I’m too quiet. I worry that I don’t look nice enough, or maybe that I look too nice. Ryan helps me out of the car, and when I start smoothing down the pencil skirt of my black cap-sleeved dress, he starts laughing.
“Why are you laughing at me?”
“Because I’ve never seen you so wound up before.”
He reaches in the jeep and grabs the bottle of Pahlmeyer Merlot that I bought for his mother. We start walking to the front door when I tug against his hand. Turning around, he cocks his head slightly and gives me a concerned look.
“Ryan . . . I don’t do well around a lot of people,” I hesitantly confess to him.