The Mothers A Novel

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Ellen Beskin was the first adopted person I met. We were eight years old and bored when she told me. We’d made an A-frame house out of giant Tinkertoys, and when we were done, we sat down, Indian-style, inside our transparent home. Neither Ellen nor I was a particularly girly girl. We both played soccer—Ellen had been the fortunate one who got Pelé’s coveted number 10—but we did not wear tube socks pulled up to our scraped knees, nor did we trade baseball cards or walk around reciting hockey scores like a few of the tomboys we knew. And yet, as we were not built for tea parties, pinkies extended as we sipped from pretend china cups, and as my mother had put the kibosh on an Easy-Bake Oven, Ellen and I did not know what to do in the trappings of this Tinkertoy house, this bastion of domesticity, once we’d assembled it.

We were just sitting there, pulling at the stiff shag basement carpeting, when Ellen said, “Did you know I’m adopted?”

I shook my head. “Uh-uh.”

“I am. Adopted. I didn’t come from my mom’s tummy. I came from a different mom’s tummy.”

“Huh.” I couldn’t look at her.

“My brother came from my mommy’s tummy.” Ellen gazed wistfully out of the pretend window. “So he’s not adopted.”

I nodded. And then I stood up. I decided I’d rather be roller-skating.

“Do you want to take this thing down?” I said as I began unscrewing the roof.

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It was my mother who made a big deal about Ellen’s being adopted by wanting to discuss it. My mother wanted to discuss a host of concerns, especially regarding disturbing topics, such as an assassination attempt on the president or the firing of a teacher for molesting a child at a local Catholic school.

“Yes, she is adopted,” my mother said when I brought my conversation with Ellen up to her a few days later. She spoke with vigor and enthusiasm, as she had when film of the president being hoisted into an ambulance played on the six o’clock news. “Do you know what ‘adoption’ means?”

“Yes, Mom,” I told her.

She raised her eyes and shook her head encouragingly.

“It means that she didn’t come from her mom’s stomach.” As I stated this I realized I didn’t understand what that meant at all. I imagined the book Are You My Mother?, that poor baby bird searching high and low, turning to all kinds of species and machines for comfort. But I had related to that bird too; my mother was away often. Claudine was the one reading to me. Are you my mother?, Lucy and I would both say together in the places I’d memorized. What, I wondered, did Ellen make of the question the book begged?

“That’s right,” my mother said. “How does that make you feel?”

“Fine?” It was a question that, going forward, I would be asked by her so many times I would begin to dread and despise it.

“What it means is that Mr. and Mrs. Beskin wanted Ellen so much they had to search for her,” she said, and then she went on to explain to me the process of adoption. “Ellen might feel bad about it, because her brother wasn’t adopted,” she continued. “She shouldn’t feel bad, mind you, but she might.”

When Ellen’s mother—the adoptive one—died two years later, from cancer, and I attended her funeral with my mother, I fixated on Ellen and her father and brother, seated in the hard pews, her blond head twitching beside the darker versions of her family. It was my first funeral and the ritual, the flung-open casket, the wreaths of flowers propped on metal stands, fascinated me. Our teachers were there; for the first time I’d gotten to see Mrs. Gross outside of her classroom. Teachers were all we knew then of celebrity, and spotting one now, as one of us, was nothing short of thrilling.

As the minister spoke—so many firsts in one special day!—I thought of how Ellen’s being adopted was surely connected to the death of her make-believe mother. Precisely how, I was not certain. All the kids were saying that if your hand was bigger than your face you had cancer, and I could see many students in the pews that day, testing this out. I wondered if Ellen’s mother’s hand had been bigger than her face. But because Ellen was the first adopted person I knew, and the first person whose mother—if that was what she had in fact been—had died, then certainly there was something tethering these two moments together, even if it was only in the effect of Ellen’s losing her mother twice.

Ellen was sent to a private school for junior high and high school, and I lost track of her. Before she left, she had grown very intense. She forged personal relationships with our favorite teachers. She seemed to have protracted and fraught romances instead of the timid schoolyard dances the rest of us were having. At the parties we threw in our parents’ basements, while they swilled wine and ate fondue with their friends upstairs, we played Spin the Bottle and Two Minutes in Heaven, and sometimes smoked clove cigarettes on the covered garage tarmac, Ellen would often wander off into a dark corner, alone. I came upon her there as she was being comforted by one of the more fleshy, maternal figures of our bunch, and I was fascinated by Ellen’s vulnerability and the other’s willingness to soothe it, bodily, her arms around Ellen, a pudgy hand pushing back her white-blond hair.

Surely it was her mother’s death that created this need for prolonged connection, for succor, due to this cleaving, a crucial sense of belonging cut. I thought of this flying along 85. As we’d crossed over into North Carolina from Virginia—when the rolling hills and barns and fences, horses swatting their stunning tails, cows asleep against the green of the thick grass—everything had come into focus. I could distinguish where the land met the sky, and I could discern the rise and fall of the earth as we made our way south. It occurred to me only then that I was off the fertility drugs and for the first time in a long while I was thinking clearly, seeing the world not blanketed in fuzzy contours, but in sharp definition. Everything was radiant.

Leaving the city can often make things brighter, the color of the moment, yes, but also the shades and nuances of home, too. The horses were placid and sweet as we drove by, and I’d wished that I had a carrot or some apple for them to eat from my palm. It was a silly wish, and I had given those up, as I had begun by then to think my wishes should be saved, that I’d used them too freely and quickly on lesser desires, like procuring a tenure-track position in New York City, no small feat, or on daily aspirations, like for the subway to just once get me where I needed to go on time. Such replaceable wishes. I wondered, as we passed the horses, if my wishes weren’t all used up. Perhaps it was time for prayers.

My sister was a rider. She used to go with my father to a stable farther south in Virginia, and they would ride together. I remember watching her put on her hard hat, and that blue blazer with the golden buttons. I remember her soaping her saddle, a present from my grandparents, who had never so much as touched a horse. And I remember Lucy slipping a tall boot into the stirrups and sitting up straight and tall, and then the two of them moving, her body matching the rhythm of the elegant animal’s pace. After, waiting for our father, we’d pick the buttercups and dandelions that grew in large patches by the wooden fence of the rings and place them under each other’s chins. You like butter, we’d say, yellow reflected on the pale and delicate skin at our necks. And the deep yellow of dandelions. Mama had a baby and its head popped off, we’d sing, flicking the blooms from their tender stems.

Now, with my newfound coherence, my view of a shimmering world, I thought, Perhaps I will write a poem. “Ramon,” I said, “I’m so hopeful I could write a poem right now.”

He laughed. “A poem? About what?”

“About nature. Isn’t that what poems are about? How now I can see the world again.” I was smiling.

“Okay, shall we write it now?”

“I’m serious!” I said. “I’m feeling hopeful again.”

“I’m glad.” Ramon put his hand on my shoulder.

I tried to picture our child. How strange to have absolutely no idea what she will look like, or when he might arrive, and by what sort of delivery system. I remembered meeting Ramon, and then later that day, seeing him across the room at a café, moving toward me with two glasses of wine, and how I had a vision of him holding a child’s thumbs and guiding that child across the room to me.

I’m not inclined to such fancy, but it was how I knew that I would choose Ramon. Since then I’d been looking so hard to catch sight of that child’s face.

“Thanks for being glad.” I sounded more sarcastic than I’d intended.

We were silent for a bit. I remembered us before any of this, on Capri, a last-minute trip we took to escape Ramon’s mother for a few days. Our hotel had been carved into a cliff overlooking the sea, the famed Blue Grotto far below. Paradise, really, though our room—the only remaining one available—looked out onto the street; the sea and sky and cliffs were cropped out.

Before dinner we had walked down to the Grotto. It was twilight, when all the glass-bottom two-person boats were on their way out of the caves. Tourists (Tourists! I thought; I had with me an Italian!) made their way, beaming, shakily, out of the boats and onto the stone shore. We stood and watched, and then Ramon spoke to a few people in Italian, inquiring as to where was nice to eat, I think, and soon enough someone was taking us out onto their boat.

Come, Ramon had said, gesturing for me to step in. We ducked low in the boat and rode toward this tiny white light, the spectacular entrance to one of the sea caves, and the echo of the fishermen speaking to one another. Inside, Ramon gently pushed me to stand, and when I met his hand with resistance, he threw off his shirt and jumped in. He glowed—this is the thing about the Grotto: as dark as it is inside, it shoots what it holds in its waters through with silvery light. I watched Ramon, nacreous in the water. He looked luminous and also fearless. I was still scared of any of the ways my body could fail and shame me, and yet I jumped in after him, the fisherman clapping slowly behind us, and I felt the heavy water, watched my hands, as I lifted them, carry light.

When we went back to the room to change before dinner—

a place the fisherman had recommended, not fancy, but authentic—we turned to each other in the dark of the room. The sun had gone down, and now the night sky appeared, illuminated with stars, like fish in the sea, I knew, even if I could not view it. I imagined Ramon, as I would often picture him now, indomitable in the water.

We stripped off our wet clothes and our bodies were clammy as we met each other.

“I have an idea,” Ramon said.

We were standing. All of him was touching all of me.

“What.” I placed my face at his neck. “Tell me.” I looked up at him.

“Let’s try to make a baby,” he said.

What I remember most was giggling as he pulled me onto the bed.

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“Oh my God!” On the highway, Ramon stopped short. We had come upon a row of five or six cars, the sun glaring off their shining hoods, a deflection of flaxen light. It took me a moment to see the true distraction, a bus that was turned slightly on its side, on the shoulder of the road. There was something painted on the surface of the bus that I couldn’t make out, and several of the dark windows were smashed in; the remaining ones had white, spiderweb-like lines bursting across the glass. The front wheels still spun in the air, dismal pinwheels.

“Oh my God,” I said again, covering my face with my hands.

Several people had gotten out of their cars and were on their phones, clearly calling for help.

“Jesus,” Ramon said, driving along the opposite shoulder. I could feel our tires slowly turning beneath us, the sound of stray stones impressed in the tough, grooved rubber, and then the shift from the scrape of smooth, new asphalt to the soft rugged earth.

We saw someone inside the bus, propped sideways. Spread palms pushed against the glass of the doors, and then the hands, as if the fingers remembered the laws of reversals, began pulling at the door. And then this person, off-kilter, as if the world had turned upside down, stepped jerkily out of the bus. The shoulder-length hair, teased high, and the long legs, wrapped in tight denim, the high, slender hips, belonged to a man.

He wandered the road aimlessly, in circles, one leg crossing over the other, a foal learning to walk, as he looked up at the sky, his forehead smeared with blood.

The onlookers tried to still the man as we continued to drive on the shoulder.

“Do you think we should call anyone?” I asked.

Ramon shook his head. “Everyone is calling,” he said, and, as if to prove his point, as we passed, I saw someone snap her phone closed and reach out for the man, touching his chest, an offering of comfort.

I turned around in my seat to watch the scene recede. The man just swayed and sat down in the road, and I watched several others start to leave the bus, one by one, startled and disoriented, and then soon they were merely toy soldiers, inky silhouettes against the darkening sky and black road, and then they were small dots on the horizon and then they were gone and again we were on our way.