You Don't Have to Say You Love Me

My siblings and I could have been taught that old language. We could have learned how to navigate all of those ancient rivers of words and concepts.

My siblings and I could have become the last guardians of the old Spokane language.

But we are not.

My siblings are everyday citizens of our reservation. They speak only English. And I, crazily enough, have turned English into my only vocation and greatest avocation.

I speak and dream in English. I am a gifted writer and speaker of English. And that fact, in the small world of the Salish language and of the Spokane Indians, is cause for unequal amounts of celebration and grief.





151.





Thursday Is a Good

Day to Find an Empty

Church Where You

Can Be Alone





I want to believe That my father and mother Have found each other In the afterlife

And become a new kind Of husband and wife.

I hope they’ve built A home by water

And have guest rooms For all of us sons And daughters.

But I don’t want to be The atheist who prays Only for himself, So let me just say That my mother and father Would certainly prefer To be alive and alive.

Maybe they can return As birds. Listen.

I know this magic Will never happen.

And maybe my faith, Or lack of faith, Is odd. But I don’t need Answers. I just want To be heard by somebody— By the real and/or imaginary God.





152.





Pine




And now I need

To do something Excessively Indian

So I will name

All of the pine trees On the reservation.



That one is Mother And that one over There is Mother

And so is that third Pine in the valley And that tall one

On the ridge is Mother.

Okay, I’m either lazy Or I have an arboreal strain

Of Oedipus complex.

So let me take this down A few degrees.



That pine, the closest one To my mother’s grave— I imagine its roots

Will eventually feed On what my mother Will become



After many years In the earth.

So let my mother

Be that tree

And let that one tree Be my mother.



And let my Mother Tree Turn every toxin Into oxygen



So that my siblings And I can finally And simply breathe.





153.





Ancestry




My late mother is The grandmother Of this poem.

It is her

Descendant,

Disrespectful Enough to reveal That my late mother Was conceived By rape,

That most vicious Of amendments.

Unlike me, this poem Will question My late mother About her conception And self-conception: I’m sorry

To interrogate you.

I know you’re the victim And should be treated With respect.

But there are things I’d like to know.

When did you first learn You were the child Of rape? Who Told you? Why Did they tell you?

Should I even Call him

Your father?

Nobody wants To be known As a rapist’s daughter, Do they?

I should tell Everybody

You were raised By a good man Named James, And not

By your biological Father, yes?

Are you angry With me

Because I’ve revealed What you chose To conceal?

I’m sorry

For this

Intrusion.

But I need To know if you saw The rapist’s face When you looked Into the mirror?

Did your mother see him When she looked At you?

Is it possible That your mother Loved you less Than your siblings Because of how You were created?

Did you ever learn How to be

Anything other Than devastated?

Okay, stop, stop, I want to stop This poem

And drop

The facade.

I, Sherman Alexie, Am the child

Of Lillian Alexie, who was the child Of rape.

I, Sherman Alexie, Am the grandchild Of rape.

My children are The great-grandchildren Of rape.

All of these descendants Exist

Because of rape.

Rape is

Our ancestor.

Rape is

Our creator.

Rape is

Our Book

Of Genesis.

Rape is

Our Adam & Eve.

And yet.

And yet.

We never

Forget

That my mother chose My father

Because of love.

I chose my wife Because of love.

Our children

And grandchildren Will choose

Their spouses Because of love.

We continue

Lovingly

Despite

The crimes

Committed

Against any

And all

Of us.

How miraculous Is that?

Dear Mother,

Dear Lillian, Thank you

For choosing me.

Thank you

For your gifts, Borrowed

And renewed.

Thank you

For my birth.

And for all

The plentitude Of this

Half-vicious

And half-forgiving Earth.





154.





Things I Never Said to My Mother





1.


I have two sons—your grandchildren— One dark-skinned and one light.



That means they’ll have to fight Slightly different enemies.



My dark son will have to be wary Of angry white men with guns.



My light son will have to verbally battle Angry Indians with sharp tongues.





2.


My sons ride city buses

To and from school.



They walk among thousands Of strangers arranging



And rearranging themselves.

There are so many new



Skyscrapers

Being built



In our city of rain,

I wonder if



Everybody’s spirit animal Is now the construction crane.





3.


Dear Mother, I live and work In a black neighborhood. Well,

In a black neighborhood being Gentrified. It’s good. I love it here.



Late one night, at my office One mile from home, I stared

Out my window in an insomniac haze.

Remember how crazed I used to be?



Turns out eight hours of sleep Is the only vision quest I need.



Anyhow, as I stared out that window, I saw a transformer sizzle

And spark down the block.

Accidental and gorgeous fireworks.



Then that transformer boomed And turned the neighborhood

Into one large and powerless room.

In five minutes, the closed supermarket

Parking lot below me was crowded With dozens of black teens and young adults.



A sudden party! And the bass that shook Their car windows shook my office window!



Then, three minutes after the party started, Six police cars pulled into the parking lot.



Oh, shit! Oh, shit! I wondered if somebody Was going to get shot! But the cops stayed

In their cars, content to just be reminders Of more dangerous possibilities,

While the black teens behaved like teens.

Twenty minutes later, the power came back.



I was surprised that it had been fixed So quickly. Soon enough, the black kids

Vacated the lot. And the cops did, too.

It was one of those city nights where

Bad things could have happened.

But it was good things that shook the air.



The music and car engines and laughter Only singing about love, not disaster.





4.


I ask my older son to define “abundant,”

And he shrugs and says, “That’s when

You have too much stuff. Like us.”

My younger son wants to maybe become a rapper,

But he doesn’t want to exploit black culture.

He wants to tell his urban Indian truth,

But he doesn’t want to be a colonial asshole.

He says, “Dad, I know I’ve got money and power,

Even though I’m just a kid. But I want to talk About all the evil shit in the world.” I say, “Son,

You just gotta be honest when you’re trying To be a socially conscious artist in your village.”



And he says, “I’m gonna be honest from the start Because my rap name will be Lil’ Privilege.”


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