The thing Sarah wants least, now, is to open the presents, in front of everyone, but it is clear that’s what people expect, or at least Meredith and Lulu, the most vocal among them. So she does. Amina is holding the baby, who isn’t doing anything because babies can’t do anything, and Sarah perches on the leather pouf from that Moroccan shop in the West Village and unwraps. There is: a sterling silver rattle in telltale blue box, plus a stuffed monkey, very soft, from Meredith; a blanket, off-white cotton, hand-embroidered with a motif of small giraffes, and the very practical package of onesies, from Carol; a dozen little board books, from the black-and-white ones that are meant to be the only thing a small baby’s eyes can discern, to actual storybooks, the sort she’ll read aloud at some impossible-to-imagine point in the future, from Sharon.
“Mine next!” Amina, arms full of Henry, nods at a box wrapped in yellow.
Lauren hands it to Sarah, and she sits with it on her lap, for a second, looking at all of them, looking at her. She has a baby. This realization has come a couple of times now, each of them surprising. She knew she was going to have a baby, she was there when the baby emerged from her very body, but still, in moments, it’s possible to forget, or be so preoccupied with remembering things like which side of the diaper goes in back, quickly, before his little penis dribbles out yet more of his perfectly clear urine, that the very fact of it is lost, or buried. This is probably by design; the baby keeps you busy so you don’t have time to reflect on the fact that you have a baby. She doesn’t want to think too much, because she’s terrified of postpartum depression and has come somehow to equate the two. Sometimes, thinking too deeply is a mistake, is a trap. Sometimes it’s best just to do.
It’s a sound machine, Amina’s gift, buried inside a plush sheep. Sarah’s read good things about this. “Thank you!”
She’s not making a list but feels like she’ll be able to remember who gave her what; the gift reflects its giver’s personality, somehow. She’ll know that the hand-crocheted mobile in the shape of an antique bird’s cage was from Fiona, because only Fiona would give a present nominally suitable for baby and yet so stylish. She’s glad that Fiona is pregnant—is happy, of course, as you would be, for a friend, but selfishly, too. There are no mothers in Sarah’s close circle, and even though she’s only a couple of weeks into it, she feels alone, or like she’d benefit from some peer support. She supposes, now that she considers it, that maybe she’s always imagined doing this with Lauren, getting married, vacationing together with their husbands, who would, of course, be friends, or friendly enough. Then having babies, passing hand-me-downs back and forth between them until they could no longer remember who had originally bought those Old Navy overalls. Foolish, she guesses; she thinks, or knows, that Lauren will probably never have a baby, and even if she did, Lauren wouldn’t approach it the way Sarah’s going to approach it. She still remembers, though, the things she once thought, even if nothing has happened quite as she imagined it would.
There’s only Lauren’s gift now, a bounty of clothes, ridiculous every one—outfits for a man, scaled down for a baby, and a sailor’s suit like a baby in a Shirley Temple movie might have worn. She laughs. She understands, immediately, that this is both a joke and not.
“These are ridiculous,” she says.
“I couldn’t resist,” Lauren says, also laughing.
There’s also a blank book, in a pretty jeweled color.
“For photos,” Lauren says. “Real pictures. Not just data on your cell phone. Old school. You’ll be glad you have it later.”
“Wonderful!” Lulu snatches the book from her hands. “I’ve been saying the same thing. All the pictures, we have all those pictures in the house, and they’re so wonderful to have. The way things are done nowadays . . .”
“You’re sounding old, Mom,” Sarah says. “But you’re right. There’s something nice about real photos. Thanks for this. And that’s enough gifts.”
The afternoon trickles away, and the women trickle away, kissing the baby, kissing her. Fiona is left, legs curled beneath her on the sofa; Lauren is left, picking up used napkins and little bits of ribbon and tossing them into the garbage can under the sink.
“You don’t have to,” she says.
“I do,” Lauren says. “Just sit.”
Sarah does as she’s told, sitting with Henry in her arms, his eyes wide, which will last for a few minutes, but then they’ll grow smaller, and she’ll feed him, and put him down on his back and let him sleep, hopefully for a couple of hours. She’s not tired, exactly, but she could sleep. So, too, could she get up and clean the living room. But she can tell it makes Lauren feel good to help, so she doesn’t.