“I’m glad you enjoyed it. You know, this city has so much to offer, so much great art to see. People just stay in their bubble of North Portland and never get out to see all that the city has,” she says. “Have your friends ever been here?”
I know she is not referring to my friends at St. Francis but the ones in my neighborhood. “Probably,” I say. Even though I am not sure.
When we get to the restaurant, there’s a short wait and then we are seated. Once we’ve had time to look the menu over, the waitress approaches the table. Maxine orders grilled salmon on top of arugula and an Arnold Palmer. She says to me, “Get whatever you want, okay?”
I really want a burger and fries but I don’t want a Healthy Eating, Healthy Living lecture right now. So, even though I’ve never had arugula and I have no idea what an Arnold Palmer is, I order the same thing as Maxine.
When the meal comes, I realize that an Arnold Palmer is some weird name for lemonade and iced tea mixed together. It’s actually pretty good. So is the salmon and arugula. Maxine starts with the small talk, but I can’t muster the fakeness. I am still thinking about what she said on our way here. “What did you mean when you said people in North Portland live in a bubble? I live in North Portland and I—”
“Oh, no—not you specifically. I meant that I know a lot of people who only stay within the small confinement of their blocks. They don’t really go out of their neighborhood to explore other areas.” Maxine squeezes a lemon into her drink.
I’m not trying to be disrespectful to Maxine, but I don’t like her talking about my friends like she knows them, like she understands anything about them. “Maybe they can’t afford these places,” I tell her.
“Yes, well, maybe the museum is a little pricey,” Maxine says. “But I think they have special discounts for families who can’t afford full admission. All that kind of info is on their website.”
“Well, not every family has a computer and, if they do, they might not have the Internet,” I tell her.
Maxine is full of ideas. “There are a lot of free things too. I mean, even taking a drive to Multnomah Falls or going to Bonneville Dam.”
“Yeah, well, my mom doesn’t have a car, so there goes that idea,” I say. “And if she did, I’m sure she’d need to be conservative on where to drive in order to keep gas in the car.”
Maxine shakes her head at me. “Always the pessimist,” she says, laughing.
Always the realist, I think. Always the poorest.
Maxine goes on talking, not even realizing she’s so oblivious. We’ve been at the restaurant so long that most of the people who were here when we first came in are gone and a whole new crowd has come.
“How’s your mom?” Maxine asks.
“She’s good. Working a lot,” I say.
“And what is it she does again?”
Again? I never told her. I tell Maxine about my mom working for Ms. Louise. “And now she’s working for another woman on the weekends.”
Even though this is good news, Maxine’s eyes are full of pity. She sounds like those annoying adults who take babies by the hand and talk in gibberish, in that childish voice. “So many people can’t find work in this economy,” she says. “Your mom is lucky.”
I think, She is not lucky. She works hard. Figured out a way to keep the lights on and the bills paid. Didn’t give up. All this talk about my mom makes me wonder about Maxine’s family. I ask her, “What about your mother? What does she do?”
“She’s a surgeon,” Maxine says.
“So she must have been at work a lot when you were younger too?”
“She was, actually. Yeah, she was.”
“Did you have a mentor?”
“No. I didn’t,” Maxine tells me.
I wonder why people didn’t think Maxine needed a mentor. Wonder why Maxine thinks she can be a mentor if she’s never had one.
The waitress asks if we need anything else before leaving the bill. Maxine says no and pulls out her wallet.
“Any other questions for me?” Maxine asks.
I wait for the waitress to walk away and then I say, “Yes. What makes you want to do this?”
“Well, I guess I’m doing this because, well, because I want to make a difference and because I—”
I roll my eyes. “The real reason,” I tell her. “Is it good money? Did you always want a little sister? There has to be a reason.”
Maxine laughs. “Okay, here it is—the money does help, of course. And, um, let’s see, well, I’m really interested in working with young girls and women—especially women of color—in regards to their mental, physical, and emotional health. So I thought this would be a good experience for me,” Maxine tells me.
“But why?” I ask. “I mean, what makes you want to do something like that?”
The waitress comes back with chocolate mints and the receipt. Maxine signs her name. “I guess I’m doing it because I could have used someone helping me out when I was your age. It would have been nice to have someone to talk to.”
“You think I need someone to talk to?” I ask.
“I don’t know. Do you?”
It takes me a while to answer. Not because I don’t need someone, but because I don’t want to say yes and have her thinking my mom is not a good mother. I don’t want her thinking I am some ’hood girl with a bunch of problems she has to come and fix.
“Jade, I know this is kind of awkward,” Maxine says. “I mean, we’re still getting to know each other. I know it’s going to take time, but hopefully one day you’ll feel like you can tell me anything.”
I tune out some of what Maxine is saying because now it’s starting to sound like something she practiced, something Sabrina told her to say. But when she says, “We’re going to have so much fun with the other mentor-mentee pairs. I can’t wait for us to grow and learn from each other.”
I ask her, “How is that going to happen if you keep flaking out on the activities?”
Maxine looks stunned that I actually said this. She takes a sip of her Arnold Palmer even though there’s not much left to drink. “You have every right to be upset with me for being so flaky today,” Maxine says.
“And last month,” I add.