“I guess it depends on what you’re trying to say.”
“She’s an alcoholic,” he said. “That’s why I stopped dating her.”
He said it so matter-of-factly that it caught me off guard. It almost seemed silly because it was so serious.
“She calls from time to time. I think she’s trying to booty-call me.”
I wanted to laugh again at him using the expression booty-call, but deep down, I was starting to get jealous and I could feel the jealousy moving its way closer and closer to the surface.
“Ah” was all I said.
“I’ve told her I’m with someone. Trust me. It’s annoying more than anything else.”
The jealousy was now hot on my skin. “Okay.”
“Are you upset?”
“No,” I said, breezily, as if I truly wasn’t upset. Why did I do this? Why not just say “Yes”?
“Yes, you are.”
“No.”
“You’re doing that thing.”
“No, I’m not.”
“Yep, your chest is getting red and you’re speaking in clipped tones. That means you’re mad.”
“How would you even know that?”
“Because I pay attention.”
“Okay,” I said finally. “I just . . . I don’t like it. This woman you used to date—which by the way, let’s just acknowledge means you used to sleep with—I don’t know if I like that she’s calling you to do it again.”
“I know. I agree with you. I told her to stop,” he said to me. He didn’t seem angry but he did seem defensive.
“I know. I know. I believe you, I just . . . Look, we said we would be exclusive for these five weeks, but if you don’t want to . . . ”
“What?” Ben had long ago stopped eating his pasta.
“Never mind.”
“Never mind?”
“When was the last time you saw her?” Why I asked this question, what I thought it proved, I do not know. You don’t ask questions you don’t want the answers to. I never learned this.
“What does that matter?”
“I’m just asking,” I said.
“It was a bit before I met you,” he said, looking down into his wineglass, sipping it to hide from me.
“How much of a ‘bit’ are we talking about?”
Ben smiled, embarrassed. “I saw her the night before I met you,” he said.
I wanted to reach across the table and wring his neck. My face flushed with jealousy. My chest felt like my lungs were a bonfire. I didn’t have a good reason. I couldn’t rationalize it. I wanted to yell at him and tell him what he had done wrong, but he hadn’t done anything wrong. Nothing at all. It didn’t even make sense for me to be this jealous. I just . . . I wanted to believe that Ben was mine. I wanted to believe that no one had made him smile until I did, no woman had made him yearn to touch her until I had. Suddenly, the woman calling took on a personality of her own in my head. I saw her in a red dress with long black hair. She probably wore black lace bra and panty sets. They probably always matched. In my head, her stomach was flat. In my head, she liked to be on top. Instead of admitting my jealousy, instead of telling the truth, I scoured the facts and tried to find a way to blame him.
“I just don’t know how much I believe you’re really pushing her away. I mean, a woman doesn’t call over and over if she knows she’s going to be rejected.”
“It’s my fault she’s a drunk?”
“No—”
“You’re telling me you don’t know any women that are so confident in their attractiveness that they don’t ever hear no?”
“So now you’re saying this woman is hot?” I challenged.
“What does that have to do with this?”
“So she is,” I said.
“Why are you being so insecure right now?”
What. The. Fuck.