But I gave him more.
“And the schedule, Deke, it’s insane. On the road. On a bus. On a plane. In a car. In a hotel room. Up early for press. Interview after interview trying to answer the same questions that are asked over and over again, doing it in different ways, trying to seem engaged. Dog-tired by sound check. Amping for the performance to be so jazzed at the end you can’t sleep. Booze all over the place. Drugs easy to get. Everything. Illegal. Prescription. And everybody wants to be your friend because you can get them backstage or get them introductions to the people who’ll make their dreams come true or they can just take off with all the shit folks shower on you for no reason, just because you can sing and you have a famous last name. You’re open to being used, open to shit that is seriously unhealthy for you, finding yourself needing it just to get through the day, doing your best to deny that, turn your back on it and keep going.”
I looked to him, took a breath, but I wasn’t done.
“All that happens and if you’re lucky, it grows. Then you need to build a wall to stay behind, to keep away from all that shit, to stay safe. And suddenly, you’re behind that wall. What I do, Deke, it isn’t about being behind a wall. It isn’t about keeping myself shielded from the people who love the stories I tell. It’s about us being two halves of a whole. I love what I do and I’d be happy doing it just for me. But they love what I do too and it’s indescribable how amazing it is that what I give is something they want to take. It isn’t like there would be no me without them, yet it is. We’re one. You remove yourself from part of that, you’re missing something crucial to the process. No one can live without their other half.”
I watched as he lifted my hand but he stopped in mid-air. I didn’t know what he intended to do and it seemed for a moment that he didn’t know either.
He decided and I had to turn to him when he lifted my hand farther up, pulled me closer, and pressed it to his chest.
I felt that hit me in the throat in a way I liked.
And with that warmth right there, I kept sharing.
“The more success you get, the more there’s a need for that wall. Then you start needing that wall reinforced until you’re so far away from your other half, it’s like they don’t exist.”
“Your dad had to have that wall, baby,” he noted softly.
“He did,” I told him. “That’s why he always toured. He might take a break for a few months but only to plan the next tour, record the next album. He was always on the road because he needed those times when he could tear down that wall. Be onstage with his fans a sea of faces in front of him, singing right along with him. There is no greater beauty in a song than thousands of voices singing it. I know it might piss some people off when artists onstage turn the microphone to the audience. But I can say there is nothing a songwriter can experience in the art more beautiful than shutting your mouth and hearing your work sung to you by thousands of voices. Knowing something that came from your soul is embedded in someone else’s.”
“You miss it,” he noted.
I turned back to the windshield. “Some of it,” I told him.
A lot of it. I heard whispered in the deep recesses of my mind, this surprising me.
Deke took me out of that thought when he fully lifted my hand and I felt his lips touch my knuckles before he dropped it back to his thigh.
I didn’t watch that. It felt beautiful. If it was as beautiful to see as it felt, I’d unravel in the car.
We were driving down Main Street in Carnal when Deke spoke again.
“Want you to think on that, Jussy.”
“Think on what?”
“You have way too much to give to let others offer it for you, baby,” he said carefully, quietly.
Marvelously.
And he wasn’t done.
“It’s your choice. You want your less that’s more, I get that. I do. But you miss it, you feel the need for that connection direct, you should go for it.”
I didn’t know what he was saying.
But what I thought he might be saying concerned me even as it bizarrely elated me.
And I focused on the part that concerned me.
“And if I went for it, where would you be?” I asked.
He shot me another glance before he asked back, “Where would I be?”
“That’s what I’m asking.”
“No, babe, where would I be?” he asked again, but it was a statement as much as a question.
I just didn’t know what he was stating.
“Yes, Deke, that’s what I want to know. Where would you be?”
It was more than a glance, he gave me a full look before he shifted his attention back to the road and put on his indicator to turn left on County Road 18.
He did this saying, “With you.”
I gripped his hand so tight I felt his bones dig into the pads of my fingers.