Those were never the verses my father focused on in his sermons, which I assumed was a function of adults versus children. The grown-ups got the serious stuff, the harsh judgments and fiery admonitions, while the children learned about Jesus and love and kindness.
In this particular Sunday school class, my young, pretty teacher showed us a photo of Jesus as a brown man. He gazed kindly from a painting I now realize was a version of the Catholic Sacred Heart of Jesus. But for me, in that moment, it was the friendliest version I’d ever seen. I couldn’t have been more than eight or nine, and right then, Jesus became my friend.
All at once, I understood that this kindly God could keep me company and listen to my worries and prayers and even sleep next to me at night when I was afraid. My mother must have already died, because I missed her the most at night, when I felt the emptiness of her death pressing into my room, ready to smother me. I asked the teacher if Jesus could stay with you while you fell asleep, and she said, “Oh, of course, Suzanne! What a wonderful idea, to talk to Jesus while you fall asleep.”
That was it for me. Jesus of the big brown eyes and happy smile was my constant companion. I imagined that he strolled along beside me to school, double-checking when I crossed the street to make sure I didn’t get hit by a car (which had happened to a girl in our class—she had not returned to school, though she hadn’t died). He sat with me during lonely sandwich suppers while my dad worked on his latest sermon, and when I fell asleep, I imagined Jesus held me, stroking my hair the way my mother had, once upon a time. Sometimes, Jesus sang to me.
Unfortunately, he couldn’t protect me from my father, and in my fury, I turned my back on that comforting prophet. Even Beryl’s gentle religion couldn’t penetrate when I returned to Blue Cove.
As I sit in my kitchen looking out to a restless gray ocean, I can press my fingers into the ache the loss of my religion left behind. An REM song rolls through my memory, a song that wrecked me the first time I heard it.
Now I think about the man at the restaurant. The men who attacked me.
Was I too outspoken, too harsh, when I spoke out against the LNB? Maybe. I knew they’d killed Nadine Truelove, a freshman senator from California who had vowed to stand up to them.
But when I was a broken teenager, shamed and hidden away, I’d vowed to stand up for other girls. I promised myself that I’d never stand by in silence.
So I speak up. Against the Taliban, against Tea Party radicals, and yes, against the LNB, a radical white-supremacist sect out of the mountains of Colorado.
The day of the interview when I got myself in such hot water, we had pulled out of Afghanistan, and the country was falling to the Taliban in record time. Days. I kept thinking about all those girls, all those girls, six-year-olds and teenagers and earnest writers and budding scientists, girls who’d been happy about school and learning things and getting ready to take their places in the world—all sidelined, swept out of schools, suddenly forced to stay at home.
Every last one of them wore Jasmine’s face in my mind. Jasmine, who carried around a little notebook to write things down, who wrote geography reports just for herself, who loved to read.
Jasmine. What a fierce little being she is! I don’t remember where I was when Stephanie was born. Traveling somewhere with some movie. Those were the years when I worked pretty much all the time, going from filming to promotion to pre-production on one movie after another, twelve in fourteen years.
But I was home visiting Beryl when Jasmine was born in Portland. By then, my career had settled into a good rhythm. Not easy, because it’s not an easy world, but because by then I worked in television, I could mostly live at home. Dmitri still filmed a movie every year, so he was on location four or five months, and we both enjoyed the fact that this allowed us to live our own lives and still have the relationship.
We knew Steph was due, so I headed up to Oregon a week or so ahead of time. Steph had asked Phoebe to be her coach because she’d already left her husband, so Phoebe was in the room when Jasmine arrived in the world.
Beryl and I drove up two days later. By then, Beryl was in her late eighties and not as comfortable driving as she had been. Although her eyesight was good, her reaction times were not, a confession she made herself when she gave up her keys. Phoebe and I both suspected there’d been some sort of a minor incident, but Beryl never shared.
We listened to CDs of folk songs and belted the words out at the tops of our voices, and I remembered a time Beryl drove me to Phoebe’s house for a long weekend. I wonder now why my dad let me go, but he did. I was so intimidated by the big house, the swimming pool in the basement, Phoebe’s much more comfortable world. “Remember when you drove me to Phoebe’s house?”
“Yes. She looked forward to that for months.”
“Me too.” I shook my head slightly. “And then I was so intimidated by seeing the world she lived in. It was so different than mine.” I remembered the tidy row of clothes in her closet, so many beautiful things. Her bathroom—her own bathroom, which she didn’t share with anyone else—was filled with fancy cosmetics, and she had shelf after shelf of records by a turntable in her room. “I was so jealous.”
“You girls were always jealous of each other. Like sisters, sure the other one had the extra helping.”
“She did have a better helping in a lot of ways. Parents, grandmother, money.”
“And she would have said that you had the beauty and the boys.”
“I would have traded in a hot minute.”
Beryl looked at me. Light caught the deep furrows in her cheeks. “Would you?”
I raised my eyebrows. “Then, maybe. Now, no way.”
At the hospital, we found Stephanie sound asleep, Phoebe in a chair by the window, a tiny being in her arms, wrapped in a burrito of blankets, only a headful of hair showing. Phoebe beamed when she saw us. “Look, Jasmine,” she said in a sweet voice. “Here’s your Amma and auntie come to see you.”
Jasmine was wide awake, trying to gnaw on her tiny fingers, and it felt like she locked eyes with me, eyes the smoky blue-gray of newborns everywhere. I fell instantly, completely in love, and my heart exploded with sorrow. Both were true: that I missed a baby who’d be grown by now, and that I would adore this girl forever.
“Hi, Jasmine,” I said, touching her finger. “I’m so glad to meet you.”
We were fast friends from that moment on. So when the reporter asked me about the shooting of Nadine Truelove by the LNB, I lost it. She’d been the youngest female senator to ever serve in California, a woman of color, and they had killed her. Killed her. I ranted for three solid minutes about religious oppression and the rise of overt white supremacy, about the terrified little boys running around trying to control the world with their violence and attempts to corral and kill women.
It was only at the end, when I realized that the entire set was quiet, that I knew I’d gone too far.
I thought they’d trim it, cut it, shape it up.
After four decades in the entertainment industry, I should have known better. They knew they had a click-generator. The interview went live two days later and was viral in fifteen minutes. I made every hit list for every nutty right-wing organization in the country. Maybe the world, because I didn’t spare any of them.
After we left the Pig ’N Pancake, I was shaking so hard I couldn’t get my shoulder bag over my head. Phoebe had to help me loop the strap over my body. I was so unsteady that she sat me down in the booth and brought me a glass of water.
“Can you take me home?”
“What about Yul Brynner?” Jasmine asked.
“I’ll come get him later,” I said. “You’ll look out for him until then, right?”
“Of course. Can he come sleep with me when I take a rest?”
“That’s up to your nana.”
Phoebe said, “Are you sure you want to be alone? I don’t mind if you come to the house.”
“I need to talk to my therapist,” I lied. “I’ll come down later, if that’s okay.”