‘This is killing me,’ Cam says after we’ve put Charlie to bed at home. He hasn’t forgotten what happened. He’s at some in-between phase where there’s no rhyme or reason as to which experiences successfully penetrate into his long-term memory and which are lost.
I’m afraid to speak. I’m over my anger now and feel terrible for having blamed the man I love for something beyond his control, even if I kept it to myself.
‘I’m going to abandon you,’ he says, his face twisted in pain. ‘I’m going to leave you and Charlie. So young. Both of you.’
We’re both welling up again now. This is horrible – this grieving somebody while they’re still here. Grieving a beautiful relationship that had decades of richness left in it, knowing what we have now will gradually be downgraded to some unutterable situation more akin to carer and patient. It’s awful, seeing him this sad for us, when it’s his life that’s going to be cut short.
‘I need you to promise me something,’ Cam says, turning to face me and taking both my hands in his on the couch. ‘I don’t want you locking yourself away forever after I’m gone.’
‘Cam – it is way too early for this conversation!’ His faculties are still ninety per cent sound, and he’s talking like it’s over already.
‘Let me say this, Katie, while I can. It’s important to me.’
I know where he’s going and I don’t want to hear it.
‘You’re young,’ he argues. ‘You could have fifty more years to live. That’s longer than you’ve been alive. Think about it. We were kids when we met. There’s so much more out there for you to experience. Don’t stop living just because I do.’
‘Do you regret that?’ I ask. ‘Settling down with your first real girlfriend?’
He laughs. ‘I just mean there’s so much more of you to discover. I want you to do that. You and Charlie.’
Okay.
‘But don’t close your heart off, okay?’ he says.
‘Cam, stop it.’ He’s asking the impossible.
‘I’m saying it now, because you need to know I was in completely my right mind when I told you this.’
I sense exactly the promise he’s going to ask me to make. And I don’t want to.
‘Kate. Find your way to someone who’ll love you and Charlie just as much as I do.’
I don’t want to think about this. I’ll never love someone else like I love Cam. It’s just not feasible even to imagine it. I touch his cheek and pull him towards me so we’re forehead to forehead. ‘I’ve had a more amazing love story with you than some people get in a lifetime,’ I tell him. ‘And that’s enough.’
He kisses me on the forehead, which is always somehow so much more beautiful than kissing me anywhere else. I just want him. For years more.
‘Listen.’ He takes my hand in his, brings it to his lips and kisses it. ‘One day you’ll find yourself in a situation where you’re feeling something again. And I know you. You’ll let the guilt get to you and you’ll want to run.’
Yes, I will. This premonition rings true.
‘When that moment comes, please remember this one. Remember I wanted this for you, with all my heart. All of it. In that moment, don’t look back.’
He takes my hand and places it on his chest. His heart is beating erratically. How can he let me go like this?
‘No-one can replace you,’ I explain desperately. ‘Know that.’
We sit there for ages, and I just want to slow everything right down. I want us to stay in this bubble forever, where Cam is only mildly confused and partially forgetful, and there’s no fictional other man in my horribly grief-stricken, lonely future without him.
18
After the next shock of turbulence, somewhere north of Newcastle, tray tables and overhead lockers shaking and shuddering, I ask Hugh straight up: ‘Are we going to die?’ There’s a directness in my tone that he can’t ignore, and his expression becomes serious in a way that scares me.
Then, worse, he puts his hand over mine – another first. He must be about to break bad news, or why would he do that? I watch in horror as my fingers waste no time in threading themselves through his, like they have a life independent of my brain.
Seeing my hand like that, entwined with a man’s after two years spent on its own, reminds me of all the touches I’ve missed. Cam never passed me a glass of champagne without his fingers brushing mine. He’d touch the small of my back with every, ‘Have you met my wife?’ I’d feel his hands on my hips, gently shifting me aside in the kitchen, or tucking the tag of my shirt into the collar at my neck. He’d grab my hand and pull me away from traffic and crowds and into bookshops and cafes. We craved each other’s touch, even after life got hard. Especially then.
But now my hand is in Hugh’s where it doesn’t belong. My fingers are interlaced against unfamiliar skin. Even after working together for years, his hand forms a shape I don’t recognise, his touch foreign.
It’s too different, and I get spooked and let go, despite my desperate fear that this plane is lurching out of control.
‘I think we’ll be okay,’ he tells me, clearing his throat. ‘She’s diverting us from the storm. I know this is your worst nightmare and you’re worried about Charlie, and that’s understandable, but I have a strong feeling the pilot is much older than sixteen. I think she knows exactly what she’s doing.’
He knows exactly what he’s doing. I want to bottle him and bring him out in every other moment when life feels treacherous. The way I always do with Cam’s notes.
Folded inside my purse are the emergency messages I’ve carried through everything. In fact, I don’t know why I didn’t reach for them as a valium substitute earlier. I take out my purse now and sift past receipts and shopping lists and find the notes tucked carefully into a pocket.
‘You know how he used to leave me these?’ I say to Hugh. ‘Not the ones around the house that you’ve seen. Other notes that he’d slip into my car or bag or suitcase. He was always doing it. Passed me the first one back in a lecture on Eighteenth Century Romantic Poets at uni, the day we met.’
‘Sentimental sop,’ Hugh teases.
‘If only! All it said was, “Hey Red . . .”’
Hugh laughs. ‘Smooth, mate. Expected more from a future English professor.’
‘Young Cam relied heavily on his good looks and boyish charm,’ I explain, laughing. I love talking about this. Gorgeous images of my first love play across my memory. Gosh, I fell hard for that boy. ‘Resistance was useless. Anyway, I just remembered this one about you. Funny, I’ve never thought to show you this earlier. I found it in my handbag on the day of my job interview, wrapped around the lipstick he knew I’d use to touch up before going in to meet you. Read it and weep, Lancaster!’
Hugh takes the yellow sticky note from me and clears his throat, while I go back to gripping the armrest. ‘KW: If this guy doesn’t see the incredible woman I do . . .’ He trails off as his eyes track over the rest. ‘If he lets you slip through his grasp, it will be the biggest mistake of his career. Be brilliant!’ There’s an unexpected catch in his voice, and he needs a fraction of a second to compose himself. It’s not surprising. They were very close. ‘That’s more like it,’ Hugh says. ‘God, I miss him.’
He looks at me straight. No bravado. Visible grief.