“I want to talk about what Matt is actually like. What our marriage is like. Because all the things that the women in our neighborhood said about him…” She reaches for her coffee and takes a slow sip. “I can’t let them do that. I thought I could let it go, but if I don’t say something, I’m never going to be able to live with myself.”
Paige’s eyes dart to mine, and I can tell from that quick look that Ben didn’t share the end of Maya’s interview with her. She’s caught off guard.
“Telling the truth isn’t going to do shit for you, honey,” Savvy whispers.
I stand, because I really can’t take much more of this. Julia looks up at me, startled.
“I should go.” I move around the coffee table and head to the door. “If people knew I was here when she tells you…” I grab the door handle. “You don’t want me here for it.”
Julia looks like she’s going to protest, but Paige nods. “She’s right. We’ll see you later, Lucy.”
I throw open the door and practically run out.
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Julia Gardner showed up on my doorstep unexpectedly one day. I received word she wanted to talk to me, and I said sure, even though I was confused about what she would have to say about this case. Matt Gardner’s wife never met Savannah, and from what I’d heard from neighbors, they were a perfectly happy couple. Matt hit the jackpot with his second wife, as one person told me.
As it turns out, Matt and Julia have been separated for a couple months now.
Ben:???????????????You moved out today?
Julia:??????????????Yes. Well, I partially moved out two months ago. I went back for more of my stuff today because he said he’d be out of town. He wasn’t, but I should have expected that.
Ben:???????????????Let’s back up a bit. You and Matt have been married for…?
Julia:??????????????Three years.
Ben:???????????????How’d you meet?
Julia:??????????????I was attending a conference in Houston, and he was there visiting some friends. We met at the hotel bar and just hit it off. We dated long-distance for a while, and then I moved out to Plumpton to be with him. We got married not long after.
Ben:???????????????Tell me about Matt.
Julia:??????????????He was really— No, I was going to say he was charming, but that’s not the right word. He’s not charming, exactly. He’s comfortable. He’s one of those people that, when you meet him, it feels like you’ve been friends for a long time. He has this way of putting people at ease. I’m not very good at talking to strangers, so I noticed that about him right away. It didn’t feel like he was hitting on me in that hotel bar, it genuinely felt like he was just being friendly. Not very common with men.
It all felt very nice, at first. He was very open with me about his past, about Lucy, and it made me feel like he was an honest man. I was looking for that in a relationship. But things moved really quickly, and he pushed hard for me to come to Plumpton. I just thought he wasn’t scared of commitment.
Once I got out here, and moved into the house, things changed a little. I brushed it off, mostly. He was moodier, more likely to snap at me, but that’s what happens, isn’t it? You get comfortable in a relationship and you stop being so polite.
Then he was yelling more, and I realized that he was drinking quite a lot. He’d hide the bottles at the bottom of the trash can outside so I wouldn’t see them. He’d been avoiding me in the evenings, holing up in his study by himself, and I realized that it was because he was drinking down there.
I tried to bring it up with him—gently—and he got really mad and told me to stop being such a prude. He said he liked to relax with a drink at night, and that I shouldn’t be complaining about him taking out the trash. Did I want him to just leave it all for me to do?
I sort of saw through those excuses, but I also didn’t want to badger him about his drinking if he wasn’t ready to talk about it. You can’t make people accept that they have a problem, you know? They have to come to it themselves.
But, unfortunately, I guess he took that as the all-clear to just drink in front of me. And he was not nice when he drank. We’d just gotten married when he really started to let loose—that’s probably why he let loose, come to think of it—and I was a little baffled about how to handle it all. And I felt like I’d been a bit of an idiot. I knew he had a problem when we got married. I’d gone in clear-eyed about it.
But then the violence started.
At first, it was throwing glasses at walls and taking out his anger on stuff around the house. Then it was me. Slapping and pulling my hair and shoving me into walls. He was always yelling at me about how I’d hit him too, how it was my fault too, and I was just like … what are you talking about? I haven’t touched you.
Ben:???????????????To be clear, he was hitting you—abusing you—but telling you that you were hitting him?
Julia:??????????????Yes. Constantly. The next morning, I’d say, if you ever slap me like that again I’m leaving you, and he’d go, you slapped me back, you have no room to talk. Which never happened.
Ben:???????????????What was his response when you told him that?
Julia:??????????????Sometimes he’d look genuinely confused. Like he really had thought that we’d been going nine rounds instead of him just … it was only him. I wondered if maybe he was so drunk that he didn’t remember what happened, so he was just saying that.
Ben:???????????????Did you ever feel safe telling anyone about this?
Julia:??????????????My mom. I’d edit it a little, try to make it sound not so bad because I didn’t want her to worry. But I definitely didn’t want to tell anyone in Plumpton. They were all so crazy about Matt. And I worried he’d tell them all that I’d hit him too, even though it wasn’t true.
The thing is … this is probably really weird, but the person I most wanted to talk to was Lucy Chase.
Ben:???????????????Even though you’d never met her?
Julia:??????????????Yeah. And that’s weird, right? No second wife wants to talk to the first wife. Especially a first wife who has been accused of murder. But I wanted to know if their marriage had been the same, because Matt talked about her so … kindly.
Ben:???????????????I’m sorry, kindly?
Julia:??????????????Yeah. It was one of the things I liked about him at first, actually. I’ve never liked men who speak badly of their exes. It usually feels a bit misogynistic to me.
Matt actually seemed sort of sad when he talked about Lucy. He said she was sweet and kind and he felt bad that she had to leave the town she loved. He openly told me he still loved her, but that they just couldn’t be together anymore. He said that he hoped she was happy.
Ben:???????????????Did you ask why they got divorced, then? If he still loved her?
Julia:??????????????I did, and he said that she left him, which is true, I think. He said that it was all just too much for her, being in Plumpton after Savvy’s murder. But, of course, later I wondered if it was because he’d been hitting her too.
And I wondered if it was just me. Maybe he’d been so devastated by that divorce that he started drinking, and he changed. That’s why I wanted to talk to her. But I didn’t reach out, of course. That would have been too weird.
Ben:???????????????You’ve met her just today, though, haven’t you?
Julia:??????????????Yes. I met her today, by chance. I didn’t ask, though. I wanted to, but it’s not my place. I could tell that she didn’t … Well, she has enough problems. She doesn’t need mine too.
Ben:???????????????How long did the abuse go on with Matt before you left?
Julia:??????????????Only about six months. It ramped up really slowly, and so there was only about half a year of me going, am I really doing this? Is this my life? How have I wandered into this abused-wife narrative? It almost felt unreal. I think I might have left earlier, had I not been so confused about how I ended up in that situation.
Ben:???????????????Was it okay? Leaving?