“Are you taking requests?” I say, giving her a quick hug when she reaches behind her speaker for a bottle of water once the song’s over.
She grins. “For you, yes.”
“Do you know ‘River’?” I say.
“Joni Mitchell? Of course,” she says, like it’s a no-brainer.
It was one of my mother’s favorites, she used to sing it at the end of late-night sets in smoky clubs. The melancholy Christmas lyrics feel as if they were written for today, the minor chord treatment of the opening bars turning “Jingle Bells” from a lilt to a lament. I’ve asked to hear it for my mother and for me, because it’s a song about things coming to an end, about leaving, and about the pain of causing the people you love distress. For all that, it’s beautiful, and I find it uplifting because it reminds me of my mother at her happiest—singing for an audience.
“In a while, though, yes?” I say. “Not straightaway.”
She nods, giving me a thoughtful look. “You got it.”
I make my way over to a broad-trunked old oak tree I’ve developed a fondness for. I’ve sat beneath it with my back turned against its trunk on warm summer days, and I’ve sometimes paused on a walk to lay my hands against the bark just to draw strength from its solid presence. My mother was an unabashed tree-hugger and I know she’d have appreciated this oak even more than I do. I’m relieved to see that the overhanging branches have sheltered the ground beneath it from the worst of the snow, and there aren’t many people around on this midwinter’s morning. I can hear kids farther down braving the icy basketball courts, and I kind of like their noise, their shouts, and their laughter. It’s real life, always moving.
I place my backpack down against the base of the tree and take my mother’s ashes from it, a simple silver urn. I’ve carried this with me since she died; it’s disconcerting to think of finally letting her go. Maybe I should think of it as letting her stay here, instead.
I rest my backside on my bag and lean against the tree, the urn pressed tight against my chest. There’s no rush. I suspect the busker understands what this is for me.
I close my eyes so I can recall my mother’s face, screw up my nose to try to bring the scent she always wore close to my memory. I saved her almost empty last bottle, and cried silently in the bathroom when Adam binned it without asking me.
“This is it, then,” I say, opening our final imaginary conversation. “Is this place okay? I don’t know if you ever came here. I hope so. You’d have hugged this tree for sure.” I lean my head back against it, my eyes open, miles away from here in my mind. I’m a round-limbed child coloring pictures backstage at one of her shows, I’m a grouchy teenager sharing popcorn at the cinema beside her, I’m a frightened daughter holding her dying mother’s hand.
“I’ve made such a mess of everything, Mum,” I say. “But they have their recipe back now. I managed that much, at least.”
I look at the silver urn in my hands. It doesn’t feel as if she’s really in there. I guess she isn’t, really. She’s everywhere. She’s in the perfect pitch of an unexpected Joni Mitchell song on the radio, in the rose-gold streaks of the best holiday sunsets, in the catch of her favorite perfume on a stranger as they pass by. She’s in every pink melamine bowl of gelato. She’ll always be with me, whether I’m in London, or New York, or Toronto. Leaving her ashes in New York doesn’t change that.
I cast a look toward the busker and find her watching me, and I give her a small, forever grateful smile as she plays the opening bars of “River” for me and my magnificent, bohemian, lightning-bolt mother. I don’t feel the expected rush of dread when I unscrew the lid. I listen to the poignant words as I slowly tip the urn, and I smile through my tears as her ashes catch on the cold New York wind. I blow her a kiss as she scatters and flies and dances, disappearing slowly out of sight like a balloon released from a child’s fingers. I look toward the busker and see she’s crying as she sings.
37.
NEW YEAR’S EVE DAWNS CRYSTAL clear, a blue-skies sub-zero last day of the year. I’ve been up since long before sunrise, taking my time to pack things carefully away. I’ve sorted stuff I’m going to need over the next couple of weeks into my suitcase, and I’m going to speak to Bobby about getting the rest mailed when I know what I’m doing. I know he won’t mind, and I feel easier about leaving my gelato maker here than in the storage lock-up. He and Robin are due back from their vacation today. They should have been getting back right about now, in fact, but he messaged earlier to say they’ve been delayed so he’ll see me later.
I’m dreading telling him that I’m leaving New York this evening, but at least this way I get to do it properly rather than just disappear. I sigh, thinking about Gio’s phrase. Say goodbye properly. How does anyone do that, really, especially when it’s to people you love and are leaving behind? I’m comforted by the idea that at least I’ll be able to stay in contact with Bobby and Robin. Maybe they’ll even come and see me when I’m more sorted, and of course there’s always video calling. I don’t have to completely lose them from my life.
It’s a different story with the Belottis. Santo made his thoughts clear—a clean break is the kindest thing for Gio. Even if he could get past the lie about Adam—and I suspect he probably would understand, in time—there isn’t a happy ending written in the stars for us.
Santo’s history with my mother is exactly that—history, in the past. She broke his heart, he compromised the family secret, and despite both of those things he went on to build a strong, wonderful family. For me to stay, everyone involved would have to know all of this. Gio, Maria, Sophia, and his other sisters. Family loyalty and tradition are Belotti cornerstones, which is why Santo has kept this part of his life locked safely inside for over thirty years. Who am I to force him to bring it all into the light now? My mother certainly wouldn’t want me to cause him that kind of distress, especially given his recent health.