Mother. All my life I had called KokoGul by this radiant and hopeful name, wishing for the touch of lamb’s wool on my cheek and too often getting nothing but a cool draft.
“The ladies were talking at the fateha. Agha Firooz thought marriage would settle the boy and knock the mischief out of him. They’d been trying to find a match for him for months. Who needs that? We aren’t here to give our girls as second or third options.”
I snapped the dishrag against the edge of the counter. “But you were ready to give them my shirnee anyway, weren’t you? Why am I so different?”
My tone was sharp. The hurt, unfurled, lay between me and KokoGul in a rare moment of honesty.
KokoGul’s eyes met mine.
“My dear, there is a difference between you and Najiba, and I’m surprised you’re asking me about it at this point. Najiba is simple. She’s a pretty girl . . . pretty enough that she’ll get attention. She comes from a good family. She’s bright and polite.”
“And me?”
“And you,” KokoGul said, her words jabbing me like a finger in my sternum. “I have to be more careful with you. Yes, you’re well mannered and have nice enough features, but everyone knows that you lost your mother. And that makes you different. And before you look at me with those angry eyes, remember that it is not my fault you lost your mother and it’s not my fault that people talk the way they do. But it is up to me to do the best I can for you. Think about it, Fereiba. If you wait to dance on the moon, you may never dance at all.”
“You don’t love me the way you love them.”
“And you don’t love me the way you love your father. Or your grandfather. Don’t think I don’t know that.”
I was silent. She was right, of course.
KokoGul, unfazed, went right back to being personally offended by the would-be suitors.
“I’m sorry she lost her son but I’m even sorrier I wasted my time serving them tea and biscuits.”
PADAR-JAN SAID NOTHING ABOUT THE MATTER. HE CAME IN AND out of the house, speaking to us gently about our classes but not a word about Agha Firooz or his son. I wanted my father to be different, but it wasn’t something he could do. Though I was free of the suitor and his family, I was left to wonder how readily my family would have given me away. And when it might happen again.
My neighbor was my retreat. He recited poetry and complained about losing points on his last engineering exam. He spoke passionately of the work he wanted to do when he graduated. He wanted to go abroad and train with a foreign company. He wanted to explore the world. I loved to hear him talk about the university and its layout. He described the buildings and professors in such detail, I could close my eyes and imagine walking through its halls.
One day, he said something he’d never said before.
“It would be nice to get to know you and your family without a wall between us.”
My cheeks grew warm. I smiled and wiggled my toes in the grass.
“But that would be . . . I mean, that’s not . . .”
“I don’t mean to be disrespectful. But I wanted to let you know that I was thinking our families should begin a conversation . . .”
“Do you know what you’re saying?” I asked, half embarrassed. “Don’t say things you don’t mean.”
“I wouldn’t, Fereiba. Believe me, qandem.” My sweet. My skin prickled to hear him say my name, the delicate but daring “qandem” settling in my ear like a soft kiss. “Do you know what I think about doing every day?”
I fell back into the grass and stared up into the branches, green teardrop-shaped leaves backlit by a defiant sun. Its white, red, and black fruits glimmered in various stages of ripeness. The light tickled my eyes.
“What do you think about?”