He’s probably right. Tom usually is. But it’s Stephen I’m thinking of: the boy who has just joined Tom’s class. His pram had been hit by a lorry when he was just under a year old. The driver had been having a heart attack at the time. No one could blame him. Not even Stephen, who is quite happy in his own world. Not even his parents, who are devout Christians and claim it is their ‘challenge’ in life. It puts the rest of us to shame.
Including Ed. How on earth does he think he can ask for sole custody? He can barely make his father/son weekends, often cancelling at the last minute. It’s happened more and more since Carla had the baby. She hasn’t been well, apparently.
‘Look out,’ says Tom sharply, at the same time as the lorry on the other side of the road hoots loudly.
What’s happening to me? I’m not just driving badly. It’s not just the wet autumn leaves that made me skid just then. I’m completely losing concentration. But when your husband’s wife has just had a child, it does things to you. Until then, Ed and I had shared something (or rather someone) that neither of us had done with anyone else. It had created a bond which couldn’t be broken. But now he’ll be lying next to Carla, his arm around her. They will be looking at their baby – a girl, Ross tells me – with the kind of awe that Ed and I had when we first gazed at Tom. Ed will be telling her, as he told me, that she has been so brave. And he will be promising, as he did me, that he will be the best father he can possibly be.
At night, he would get up when the baby cried out. (Ed always insisted on that, bringing Tom back to bed with us so I could feed him, propped up against the pillows.) He would – I can see it so clearly! – feed his new baby daughter with milk which Carla has expressed into a bottle for night-time convenience. And he would be drawing them, sketching furiously as they slept, his charcoal sweeping over the page with love and tenderness.
It’s so unfair. I’ve always yearned for a daughter to dress up, take shopping, share confidences with. But Ed didn’t want us to have more children after Tom’s diagnosis.
Concentrate. We’re nearly at the school. Tom, who has been pretty cool up until now considering the trouble he’s in, appears distressed. I can always tell from the way he pulls out hairs from his arm. I selected one of them for the DNA test, some time ago.
I pull into the car park and face him. My son. My boy. My special boy, whom I would defend to my last breath. ‘We’ve been through this before, Tom,’ I say, looking him straight in the eyes and speaking slowly and calmly like the consultant advised. ‘We have to explain to your headmistress exactly why you hit Stephen.’
Tom’s face is set. Rebellious. Unrepentant. ‘I told you. He kicked my gym shoes out of line.’
‘But he didn’t mean to.’
‘I don’t care. He still did it. No one is allowed to touch my things.’
Don’t I know it. It means I have to buy lots of spares for when the originals are inevitably at some point rejected. Spare shoes. Spare jumpers. Spare hairbrushes.
I lean across to switch off the radio. Please God, I pray. Don’t let them give Tom another warning. My finger hovers over the ‘off’ button on the radio, but something makes me pause. It’s been half an hour since the last news announcement. In a minute, it will be time for another.
‘A man has been found stabbed to death in West London,’ says the presenter again, almost chirpily. ‘A woman has been arrested in connection with the murder.’
It’s at this moment that my phone rings.
‘You can’t get that.’ Tom taps his watch. ‘We’re already thirty seconds late.’
Caller Unknown.
I normally get this on the few occasions that Ed (or occasionally Carla) has rung to make arrangements about Tom’s weekends. Ed started withholding his number when calling me some months ago, perhaps because I’d sometimes ignored his calls. If it’s urgent, I tell myself, Ed – or whoever else it is – will ring again. Then I gather my notes, even though I’ve already primed myself, and walk across the playground with my son, who has got hold of my phone and is fiddling with it. At any other time I’d try to get it off him. But I’m too focused on the imminent meeting.
‘Thank you for coming,’ says the head.
Her face is kind, but she’s rather frumpy-looking. One of those women, I observe as I watch Tom positioning his chair so it’s in a straight line with mine, who wear knee-length woolly dresses with flat ankle boots. She claims to be an expert in Asperger syndrome, but at times I have the feeling she doesn’t get Tom because she addresses him with emotion-driven questions. Not a great idea, as I’ve found out to my cost.
‘I’d like to launch straight in, if that’s all right,’ she begins. ‘Tom, perhaps you’d like to tell me again why you hit Stephen even though we don’t tolerate violence in this school.’
Tom stares at her as if she’s stupid. ‘I’ve already explained. He kicked my gym shoes out of line.’
Did I say Tom doesn’t do emotion? Yet his eyes are welling up and his neck is going blotchy. Moving things in Tom’s book is against the law. His law. Tom’s Law, which only he understands.
The head is taking notes. I do the same. Our pens are competing. My son versus this woman who dresses so badly.
‘But that doesn’t excuse hitting someone.’
‘Carla hit Dad the other week. He wanted another drink and she was telling him not to.’
There’s a silence. Our pens stop moving at the same time.
‘Who is Carla?’ asks the head in a dangerously neutral voice.
‘My husband’s wife,’ I hear myself say.
The head raises her eyebrows. They need plucking, I notice. They’re grey and bushy.
‘I mean, my ex-husband’s wife,’ I add. It still feels odd to say it. How can someone else be Ed’s wife? How is it possible that Carla can be wearing his ring? Sharing a bed is one thing. But marriage? To the child who used to live next door?
The head’s voice is deceptively gentle. ‘Do you find it difficult, Tom, now your father is married to someone else?’
I rise to my feet, my hand on my son’s shoulder. ‘I’m not sure you should be asking questions like this. Not without an educational psychologist.’
Her eyes are locking with mine. I can see that behind the frumpy skirt and the boots there is a will of steel. I should have seen that before. Was I not frumpy once?
Suddenly a dog barks. At first I don’t twig. But then I remember Tom fiddling with my phone in the playground. He must have changed the ringtone. Again. This time it sounds like a Baskerville hound.
Ross.
The head’s eyes are disapproving. Tom is tipping his chair in deep anxiety.
‘Sorry,’ I say, fumbling to switch it off. But somehow I press the speakerphone button instead.
‘Lily?’
‘May I ring you back?’ I make an apologetic face at the head and turn it off speakerphone. ‘I’m in a meeting.’
‘Not really.’
My mouth goes dry. Something’s happened. I know it.
‘I’m afraid I’ve got some bad news.’
‘Tell me,’ I want to say. But the words won’t come out. The head is staring. Tom’s chair is about to fall.
‘It’s Ed. There’s no easy way of saying this, I’m afraid. He’s dead. He’s been murdered.’
‘Dead?’ I repeat out loud.
Tom’s chair is back on the ground but his right index finger is digging round his teeth. It’s a sign of stress.
‘Murdered?’ I whisper.
‘Yes.’
A trickle of wee is running down my leg. Not in the headmistress’s study! It seems, ridiculously, more important than this terrible news.
Then the radio announcement comes back to me. The one in the car when Tom and I were parking.
A man has been found stabbed to death in his West London home …
No. NO. People on the radio bear no relation to people in real life. Victims of crashes on the motorway or stabbings in Stockwell, they all belong to other families. Not to mine. Not my husband who isn’t my husband any more.
‘Carla has been arrested.’ Ross sounds like he can’t believe it either.
And then the radio announcement continues in my head. A woman has been arrested in connection with the murder.
Tom is tugging at my sleeve now. ‘Why is your face funny, Mum?’
‘In a minute, Tom.’
Cupping the phone, I turn away from the head and my son. ‘She … she did it?’ I whisper, my words falling out around themselves.