Two by Two

The stand-ups at the Comedy Zone were good, and although one of the routines had been a bit too profane for my taste, the second comedian was both married and a father, and the humorous stories he related had the sweet ring of familiarity. At one point, I reached for Emily’s hand and when I felt her fingers intertwine with my own, I felt as though I’d come home. This, I remember thinking, is what life is really about. Love and laughter and friendship; happy times spent with those you care about.

As I drove home, yesterday seemed impossibly distant, a different lifetime altogether. The axis of my world had shifted, and like my parents, I’d aged in the last few hours. I’d been hollowed out. And as I squinted through eyes that had gone blurry with tears, I wondered if I would ever feel whole again.



Emily texted to ask if I was still at the hospital, and when I replied that I’d gone home, she said that she was coming over.

She found me on the couch, in a house illuminated by a single lamp in the family room. I hadn’t risen when she’d knocked at the door and she’d let herself in.

“Hey there,” she said, her voice soft. She crossed the room and sat beside me.

“Hi,” I said. “Sorry I didn’t get the door.”

“It’s fine,” she said. “How’s Marge? How are you?”

I didn’t know how to answer and I pinched the bridge of my nose. I didn’t want to cry anymore.

She slipped her arm around me and I leaned into her. Just like earlier that day, she held me close, and we didn’t have to talk at all.



Marge was released from the hospital on Sunday. Though she was weak and nauseated, she wanted to go home and there was no reason to stay at the hospital.

The first dose of poison, after all, had already been administered.

I pushed the wheelchair, my parents trailing behind me. Liz walked beside the wheelchair, clearing a path in the busy hallways. No one we passed cast a second glance in our direction.

It was cold outside. On the way to the hospital, Liz had asked me to swing by their house to get Marge a jacket. She directed me to a key hidden under a rock to the right of the front door.

I had let myself in and rummaged through the foyer closet, trying to find something soft and warm. I finally settled on a long down jacket.

Before going outside, Liz helped Marge stand so she could slip on the jacket. She winced and wobbled, but kept her balance. Liz and my parents set out for the parking lot together, then veered in opposite directions to find their cars.

“I hate hospitals,” Marge said to me. “The only time I’ve ever been in a good mood in a hospital was when London was born.”

“I’m with you,” I said. “That’s it in my book, as well.”

She pulled at her jacket, pinching it closed around her neck. “So roll me outside, would you? Let’s get out of here.”

I did as she asked, feeling a brisk wind nip at my cheeks as soon as we exited the building. The few trees in the parking lot were barren of leaves and the sky was an iron gray.

When Marge spoke again, her voice was so soft I almost missed it. “I’m afraid, Russ,” she whispered.

“I know,” I said. “I am, too.”

“It’s not fair. I never smoked, I hardly ever drank, I ate right. I exercised.” For a moment, she looked like a child again.

I squatted down so I could be at eye level. “You’re right. It’s not fair.”

She met my gaze, then, and barked out a resigned laugh. “This is all Mom’s fault, you know,” she said. “Her and the family genes. Not that I’d ever say that to her. And not that really I blame her. Because I don’t.”

I’d had the identical thought, but hadn’t spoken the words aloud. I knew that my mom was tormented by the same idea, and it was one of the reasons she’d barely spoken while at the hospital. I reached over and took Marge’s hand.

“I feel like crap,” Marge said. “I’ve already decided that I hate chemotherapy. I’ve thrown up four times this morning and now, I don’t feel like I have enough strength to get to the bathroom on my own.”

“I’ll help you,” I said. “I promise.”

“No,” she said, “you won’t.”

“What are you talking about? Of course I will.”

I’d never seen Marge look so sad—Marge, who shrugged off even the biggest losses with pragmatic insouciance. “I know that’s what you think you should do. And I know that you’ll want to.” She gripped my hand. “But I have Liz. And you have London, and your business, and Emily.”

“I could care less about work right now. Emily will understand. And London is in school most of the time.”

Marge didn’t answer right away. When she spoke, it was as if she were returning to a conversation I didn’t know we were having. “Do you know what I admire about you? Among other things?” she said.

“I have no idea.”

“I admire your strength. And your courage.”

“I’m not strong,” I protested. “And I’m not brave.”

“But you are,” she said. “When I look back at the past year, and all you’ve gone through, I’m not sure how you made it. I watched you become the father I always knew you could be. I saw you at your very lowest after Vivian left. And I watched you pull yourself back up. All while launching a business and the struggles that entailed. Not many people could have handled the past six months the way you did. I know for a fact that I couldn’t have.”

“Why are you telling me this?” I asked, uncomprehending.

“Because I’m not going to let you stop doing what you need to do, just because of me. That would break my heart.”

“I’m going to be here for you,” I said. “You can’t talk me out of it.”

“I’m not asking you to abandon me. I’m asking that you continue to live your life. I’m asking you to be strong and brave again. Because London’s not the only one who’s going to need you. Liz is going to need you. Mom and Dad, too. One of you has to be the rock. And while you might not believe it, I know in my heart that you’ve always been the strongest of us all.”



CHAPTER 24



December


When I think back on Marge as a teenager, two things come to mind: roller skating, and horror films. In the late eighties and early nineties, roller skating was giving way to Rollerblading; but Marge stayed true to the old-fashioned skates that she had owned as a child—I think she had a soft spot for the disco roller rinks of her early childhood. Weekends during her teenage years were spent almost entirely on skates, usually with her Walkman and headphones on… even, remarkably, after she got her driver’s license. There were few things she loved more than roller skating—unless it was a good horror film.

Although Marge loved romantic comedies like I did, her favorite genre was horror, and she never missed seeing the latest horror movie in its first week of release. It didn’t matter to her if the film had been panned by critics and the public alike; she would happily watch it alone if she couldn’t find a fellow enthusiast, as devoted to the genre as a groupie to her favorite band. From Nightmare on Elm Street to Candyman to Amityville 4: The Evil Escapes, Marge was a true aficionado of horror, highbrow and low.

When I asked her why she loved horror movies so much, she merely shrugged and said that sometimes she liked to be scared.

I didn’t get it, any more than I did the allure of rolling around with wheels on your feet. Why would someone want to be scared? Weren’t there more than enough scary things in real life to keep us awake at night?

Now, though, I think I understand.

Marge liked those films precisely because they weren’t real. Any fright she felt in the course of the film was quantifiable; it would begin, and then it would end, and she would leave the theater, emotionally spent yet relieved that all was well in the world.

At the same time, she’d been able to confront—albeit temporarily—one of the hardwired emotions of life, the root of our universal instinct toward fight or flight. By willing herself to stay put despite her fear, I think Marge felt that she would emerge stronger and better equipped to face down whatever actual terrors life had in store for her.

In retrospect, I think that Marge might have been onto something.



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