Dear Aaron

RubyMars: Remember how I told you she’s always talked a bunch of crap to us but won’t let other people do that? Keep that in mind.

RubyMars: I was probably like 6 and my dad had been on my case about taking my training wheels off for a long time (they were still together back then.) But my dad has always been the softie of the two, and every time he failed with me learning, when the bike would tip over or if I’d crash into something, etc., he would drop it and put the wheels back on. No biggie, right?

RubyMars: My mom finally got tired of me not learning and came outside one day after I’d fallen while I was telling my dad I didn’t want to try again… pretty sure I was crying. Anywho, she comes up to us, points at me, and says “Get on the bike. I’m going to teach you since somebody can’t.” So I get on the bike, because by that age, I already know not to mess around with my mom. She holds the back of the seat while I get on and gives me some instructions… the same thing my dad would say every time. Balance, keep your hands on the handles, that type of thing.

RubyMars: Before she starts walking the bike and me forward, she leans into my ear and says “If you don’t do this right the first time, Rubella, you’re on bathroom and kitchen cleanup for the next month, okay, honey? You can do it. I believe in you.”

RubyMars: Yeah, I learned how to ride that freaking bike that time LOL.

AHall80: That’s not at all what I thought was going to do down.

RubyMars: She did the same thing to Jazz when it was time. I heard her. You’ve never seen two little five-year-old’s legs pump pedals that fast in your life.

RubyMars: When it was time for me to learn how to drive, I begged my older sister to teach me instead of my mom because I was worried about what kind of threats she’d make me live with once she got tired of my BS.

AHall80: LOL

AHall80: My dad taught me how to drive RubyMars: How’d that go?

AHall80: Fine. I’m a good driver.

RubyMars: That’s not cocky at all.

AHall80: I am. It’s the truth.

RubyMars: So modest. What kind of car did you learn on?

AHall80: His white sedan. He’s always had white cars. Says they don’t get as hot as black cars do.

RubyMars: My mom says the same thing!

AHall80: :]

AHall80: How old were you?

RubyMars: 17. I had to have a job first to pay my insurance. You?

AHall80: Got my permit at 15 and was driving at 16.

RubyMars: Show off.

AHall80: It seems like forever ago. Sometimes I can’t believe I’m going to be 30. I still think I’m 16 or 18 most of the time.

RubyMars: I know. I can’t believe I’ve been out of high school almost 7 years already. Like what have I done with my life since then? You know?

AHall80: Me too.

AHall80: I never knew what I was going to do, but it wasn’t being in the military.

AHall80: Still don’t know what I want to do.

RubyMars: You still have your whole life ahead of you. You can do whatever you want with it. You’re smart, responsible, and you have a good head on your shoulders.

AHall80: I don’t know about all that.

RubyMars: It’s true. I wouldn’t say that if it wasn’t.

RubyMars: I read somewhere you’re your happiest in your thirties anyway.

AHall80: For real?

RubyMars: Yeah, I guess by that point you know who you are better and have more of your life on track by then.

RubyMars: If that’s the case, I have six years to get my crap together, lol. I’m going to need every minute.

AHall80: You’ll figure it out.

RubyMars: Everything can always be worse. That’s what I tell myself when I’m not crying into a gallon of Blue Bell.

AHall80: What’s Blue Bell?

RubyMars: …

RubyMars: You’re joking.

AHall80: No what is it?

RubyMars: ….

AHall80: Yes, I’m joking. They have it in Louisiana.

RubyMars: Bless your heart, I was about to have to try and figure out how to freeze-dry ice cream to send it to you across the world.

AHall80: LOL

AHall80: You’re something else

RubyMars: :) I’ve been told I’m very loveable.

AHall80: Who said that? Your mom?

RubyMars: ……….

AHall80: ………

RubyMars: ……..

AHall80: :]

RubyMars: I take back that one time I called you nice.

AHall80: LOL

AHall80: I thought we were friends?

RubyMars: You’re basically my closest friend now.

RubyMars: I don’t know why I just told you that. No pressure. I don’t mean it to be weird. I have other friends too. It’s just different with you.

RubyMars: I like you more than just about everyone else I know. You get me.

RubyMars: I keep making it worse.

RubyMars: I’m going to stop typing now.

AHall80: I get what you mean. You’re pretty much my closest friend too

RubyMars: :) AHall80: You can start typing again RubyMars: I’m worried I’ll say something I’ll regret.

AHall80: Like what?

RubyMars: I don’t know. Something I’ll regret.

AHall80: Like?

RubyMars: I’m not digging this hole of shame any deeper, lol.

AHall80: You already dug one deep hole, what’s another one?

RubyMars: You stepped in human crap too!

AHall80: I was talking about the peeing in public, Ruby

RubyMars: Oh.

RubyMars: About that

RubyMars: Lol

AHall80: Yeah, about that

AHall80: :]

RubyMars: I’ll own it.

AHall80: I gotta go, but I’ll message you soon.

RubyMars: Okay, bye and be safe.

AHall80: You too





April 26, 2009

AHall80: Hey

RubyMars: Hey.

AHall80: Peanut butter or jelly?

RubyMars: Is this a trick question?

AHall80: No.

RubyMars: Jelly.

AHall80: Thank God

AHall80: Just listened to five people argue peanut butter over jelly for the last hour at dinner. I was too tired to tell them they were all out of their minds.

RubyMars: You’re Team Jelly too?

AHall80: All the way

RubyMars: Good. I wouldn’t have wanted to stop being your friend over something stupid like liking peanut butter more, but I would’ve looked back on our friendship fondly.

AHall80: Heh

AHall80: Aaron and Ruby RIP 2008-2009

RubyMars: There are tears in my eyes

RubyMars: “Ruron Forever”

AHall80: Ruron? Ruby+Aaron? That’s clever.

RubyMars: It’s our ship name

AHall80: Like a battleship?

RubyMars: You poor, sweet, innocent child RubyMars: Ship. Shipping. I ship ______.

AHall80: I don’t know what you’re talking about RubyMars: Today is the day our friendship dies.

RubyMars: You’ve never heard that term before?

AHall80: No

AHall80: For real.

AHall80: “Today is the day our friendship dies”

AHall80: Ruby….

RubyMars: I’ll forgive you then. I forget the dork doesn’t run strong in you.

RubyMars: Shipping is… “relationSHIP” like, liking two characters and thinking they should be in a relationship together in a fandom.

RubyMars: Do you know what a fandom is?

AHall80: I know what a fandom is.

RubyMars: Okay. You watched Buffy. Remember Angel? The vampire? Buffy + Angel = Bangel.

AHall80: Got it.

AHall80: I liked the other guy more

RubyMars: ……

RubyMars: Spike?

AHall80: Yeah

RubyMars: Marry me.

RubyMars: I think I might love you.

AHall80: Lol

AHall80: OK

RubyMars: I’m not even joking. Marry me. The offer stands.

RubyMars: Kidding, I am joking. :) RubyMars: How much of the show did you watch…?

AHall80: ……

AHall80: 7 seasons?

RubyMars: There was only 7 seasons.

RubyMars: Aaron RubyMars: That’s tears in my eyes twice today AHall80: Max sent me tapes of every season about 4 or 5 years ago when I was deployed. He watched it too, but he’ll never admit it

RubyMars: I take back what I said. Today is the day our friendship turned into a forever thing lol

AHall80: :]

AHall80: Works for me

RubyMars: Good lol.

AHall80: I gotta go, but I’ll msg you soon, Ruron RubyMars: Okay, bye, Ruron.





April 28, 2009

AHall80: You ever feel like beating the shit out of someone?

RubyMars: Hello to you

RubyMars: Only once or twice.

RubyMars: Why?

AHall80: Who?

AHall80: Just some new guy that’s driving me up the wall. He’s so damn na?ve and stupid.

RubyMars: Who did I want to beat up?

RubyMars: I’m sorry. Did you get into a fight with him?