So it was my mother, albeit unwittingly, who helped me get to the next level of emotional recovery. Achieve that post disaster glimmer that life goes on. I even began to think about dating again. Not so much because I wanted to but because dating is always the best inward and outward sign that you’ve moved on after a big breakup. In some ways, I think it might be the only way to move on.
So when Michael strolls into my office one day and says, “Guess who has you in his number two spot?” I feel a bit excited. I know exactly what he means by “two spot.” Whether you’re an insurance adjuster in Iowa, a schoolteacher in Florida, or an editor in Manhattan, you are familiar with the practice of gathering around the water cooler (or in our case, the automated Euro-coffee machine) and discussing who among your esteemed colleagues is most attractive. It’s an exercise largely born out of boredom or long hours at the office, but it is nonetheless approached with tremendous gravity. (And is only rivaled by the list compiled by couples: “Celebrities I Am Allowed to Cheat on My Significant Other With.” Obviously my cheating list is null and void, I can do what I want now without an exemption which, unfortunately, brings me no closer to sharing a bed with (1) Sting, (2) Colin Firth, (3) Johnny Depp, (4) Tom Brady, or (5) Ed Harris.) Of course, the problem with playing this ranking game at most publishing houses is that there are slim pickings for a woman. First, the general breakdown of women to men in publishing is about 3 to 1. And of the men, about 70 percent are gay. So you’re talking a 10 to 1 female-to-heterosexual-male ratio. On top of that, aside from a few more high-profile departments like publicity, publishing is filled with a high percentage of former nerds (myself included) who spent the majority of their childhood indoors, reading books. My friend Jacqueline, for example, was featured in her local newspaper in North Carolina for reading over five hundred books in one year; she was five at the time. Not that I should talk, my greatest accomplishment as a kid was making it to the state tournament spelling bee, losing in the final round on the word precipice . This is not to say that all former nerds are unattractive. To the contrary, I think we’re a great breed, quirky, smart, and far more interesting than your average former cheerleader or ex-jock. Still, the list is not about being quirky and smart or appealing in an offbeat way; the list is about being sexy.
Anyway, one of the perks of being close to Michael is that I’m always privy to the male lists floating around, which is particularly interesting on the few occasions when I’ve been mentioned. It works like this: Michael tells me I’m on someone’s list whereupon I pretend to be some combination of embarrassed, nonplussed, or annoyed, all the while feeling secretly flattered. Who wouldn’t be? Even when chosen by a downright geek, it’s nice to know you rank.
But I still say, “Two spot?” because the last thing I want to appear is desperate or eager.
“You know. He thinks you’re the second-hottest girl at work,” Michael says.
“Who?” I say, rolling my eyes. “Gerald from the IT department?”
“Nope.” I give.
“Richard Margo,” Michael says smugly.
He now has my full attention. Richard Margo is our executive vice president and director of publicity and is very well-known at our house, as much for his prestigious position as his reputation for pitching in the minors for one season and for being a bit of a womanizer, not the sleazy kind, but the “never been married smooth intellect who wines and dines beautiful women” kind. He’s in his late forties but, unlike many men his age who are lucky to fetch descriptions like “handsome” or “attractive,” Richard can fairly be called hot. He has a very square jaw, deep-set blue eyes, and a slightly receding hairline, a combination of traits that conjures a certain rugged confidence. Even his nose, which looks as if it has been broken at least once is sexy.
Richard has not only been on my list since I arrived at Elgin Press, but he has consistently occupied my top slot, a fact that I’ve only admitted to Michael and a few other close friends (with others, I hem and haw, pretend to never have considered the subject, and then issue the preamble, “Please know that they are in no particular order,” which somehow makes the exercise seem less serious). In fact, Richard not only consistently tops my workplace list, but when Jude Law was caught in bed with his nanny, all his appeal went out the window, and a spot became available on my celebrity list. A spot I gave to Richard. At the time, Ben insisted that I couldn’t commingle my lists, whereupon I argued that he was “famous” at work. The point did not go over so well (Ben insisted that the whole theory behind the celeb list was their unattainable nature). So I bumped Richard, replacing him with Ed Harris, who, incidentally, could pass for Richard’s brother.
“Where’d you hear that?” I ask Michael, feeling somewhat shamed by my racing pulse. But in my defense, I haven’t had sex in months.
“From the horse’s mouth,” Michael says, proudly cracking his knuckles.